What do i do, when my parents hate me??

Question

my dad and i fight. he sais he hates me. my parents are constantly pushing me to be the perfect daughter, my mum compares me to my 3 succesful cousins, sais i will never be succesfull like them if im notm perfect, im only 13 im losing my mind, i wana kill myself over the teary nights of no sleep, i wanna run away.... WHAT DO I DO????????

Answer 1

just confront your mum and dad there is no point holding it all in just say look you and dad have brought me up the way i am im me not mi cousins im mi owen person tell them you want to live you life and not the life they want you to lead let tthem know you mean it too trust a simular thing happend with me and my mum we was arguing for 3 years and i had a baby and she wanted me to put it up for addoption coz i was a bit young but i refused to and now we all get along lovley because i let her pick its me and the baby or no one look good luck and i hopes it all turns out for the best okay  

Answer 2

It takes two people to fight and argue.  When your dad starts his arguing, just walk away or stand there but think about something else but do not argue back.  Soon he will get tired of arguing to himself and will quite it.

A parent should never compare their child with  someone else.  No one is alike and everyone has their own interest.  You parents are wrong to do this.

Are you trying your best in school to keep your grades up.  It takes lots of studying and paying attention in the class room.  Do not get behind or you may not be able to catch up.  When you get your test paper back, look over it to see what you missed and ask someone why you missed it.  

Sometimes people do not know when to use I or me.  If another person is mentioned in the sentence cover up the persons name and the word and and see if the sentence is correct.

Like Robert and I went to the movies.  Cover up Robert and, then you will have I went to te movies which is a correct sentence.  Give the paper to Steve and me.  Cover up Steve and

what you have left is Give the paper to me therefore you know me is correct.  Learn the rules and little tricks to learning things.

Math is one thing you do not want to get behind on because each step is build on another step. So be quick to see why you missed a problem and get help in learning to do it correctly.  

Don't give your parents a reason to compare you to your anyone else.

God luck!

Answer 3

This is not good to be compared, your're right... You don't have to be succesful, my opinion do not argue that much... Be sure that you told them what you think that's all you have to do... It's up to them understand what you say or not... Somethimes it happens, don't worry, everything will be allright...

Answer 4

they don`t hate you. parents can never hate their children.

Answer 5

I really don't think that they hate you, maybe hate what you are doing but not you.  When a child is born all the parents want for their child is to healthy and to be a good person.  If they see you going in a direction that is heading you to trouble, then sure they are going to step in to try to get you to understand that what you are doing is not helping you or the family.  Sure you are trying to "find yourself" but you don't have to be hateful to do that.

Nest thing is that you do not have to be "perfect" to be successful, you do have to be driven to be successful, and that needs to come from you by trying a little harder.  It is time to stop comparing yourself and them to stop comparing you to your cousins.  You need to make sure that you are doing positive things for you, and that you are doing your darnedest to be the best person you can be.  and never say....I cannot do it, I cannot be successful....never say that, because you can.....we create our own success, not anyone else.  If you want to get back at your parents, then show them how you can be successful ...... that should shut them up.

Answer 6

YOUR PARENTS DO NOT HATE YOU!! If they hated you they would have never had you. Parents love their babies before they are even born unconditionally!!  It's not right for your dad to say such hurtful things to you but since he is not, you need to be strong and be the bigger person. DON'T LET IT GET TO YOU!! :) Put it in your head that you are the better one (which you are!!)  They might only be pushing you because they are unhappy with the routes they took. Do not cry, be happy. Don't let them get to you sweetie please. And since you are having suicidal thoughts, go to your school counselor since it's free and your parents will not have to know about it. Or talk to another family member, your grandparents, aunts or uncles. Please don't cry or run away You will be okay. You are very strong for putting up with this already just keep your chin up!! :)

I wish you the best of luck.

Answer 7

Try hitting them.

Answer 8

tell your parents you wish they were like your friends parents see how they like it and constantly point out their faults

Answer 9

teenage life really stinks at times do your best and be yourself and try to get along with them and speak to your grandparents aunt or uncle to see if you can sit down with your parents and talk to them this is really sad and alot of pressure on you its unfair

Answer 10

you know i have this same problem only slightly diffrent,

they are  your parents but no one has the right to put any one else down , you dont need there approval of what kind of person you want to be thats something you decide on your own dont say things like you want to kill your self cus then what would you leave in this world huh? you would only set your self up for them to feel like they were right , and their not , hun you need to tell them to their faces that you are your own person you have no right to judge me and if its anyone who needs to be judged it you , and dont run away its just well i know its a mean word but its stupid just plain stupid to run away youd only be hurting your self as for the part where they say they hate you laugh in their face and be like good were on equall terms with each other XD , you know what i would do i would become rich and even more sucsesful than your cusins and invite them over to my mansion when they ring the door bell id be like excuse me only classy sucessful people are allowed here and shut the door in their sorry faces  

Answer 11

Your parents are wrong comparing you to other people. I don't like when people put others down, no matter who they are especially a parent. Your a young person you have enough time to decide what your going to do down the road with your life. They can't be to pushy and expect to much from you right now. What ever you do don't run away or think of killing yourself, it solves nothing it will show them your wick and that they were right about you. Take care of yourself.

Answer 12

yes its very stressing when parents compare you to others.

i will hate them.

i think you should tell them nicely that they are over protecting you and you wanna be urslf and not someone they have in mind..

dont run away, im sur they love you,

tell them how u feel..

Answer 13

be like "yo b*****s dont be talkin to me like that hoe"