What do i do..2 different races of ppl telling me not to trust their race!?

Question

my cousin jamal told me "never trust a n!qqa"..he is black and native american

and my other cousin who is mexican and native american told me never to trust a latino guy because they are 2 faced

and my mom doesnt let me date white guys..

i really love black and latino guys,but idk..they told me not to trust them...why would they say tht about their own ppl?

i dont get it...what should i do? =/

Answer 1

Just date who you want. There are plenty of black and Latino men who are trustworthy, race doesn't make someone not trustworthy.

Answer 2

i think their all racist including your mom

what would your mom do if you fell in love with a white guy? abandon you?

seriously all three of them need to grow up

Answer 3

I just say follow your heart. If you want to date a black or latino guy then go head. what your family is saying is no necessary right . I say it is based on your environment . If you go in the ghetto then you will most likely find a ghetto person. GOOD LUCK!!!!

Answer 4

Listen to your 'gut' instinct....and then be cautious! People of all nationalities can be rude, mean, two faced and so on...there is no set criteria between the races as to who is the most or worst whatever!

Listen to your own heart....if what others are trying to tell you is causing you worry or doubt then pay attention to it because they are probably wrong ( or the information is bad)....if you are going to be cautious then be cautious of all people (no matter their skin color or origin of birth!)!

Answer 5

Just tell your parents to stop being racist and accept every cultures.  Every person deserves to be treated the way they want to be treated.  Choose a guy who is trustworthy, loyal, funny and make the best times of your life.  However, the story that you told may seem true for some culture stereotypes.

Answer 6

become a nun, safest bet

Answer 7

It could be that they are trying to be protective of you or know what kind of guys they are or are friends with, but that doesn't mean that everyone of a particular race act in the same manner. It's important to remember that you can't judge people based on race alone. Everyone is different and need to be seen as individuals. This being said be careful and make the decisions on the type of people you want to be around for yourself.

Answer 8

trust comes from the person themselves not the color of their skin, you need to trust who in your heart you feel you can trust, no one can tell you different, you have to judge trust  

Answer 9

tell your family members stop being RACIST

Date who ever you like even if he is white black or latino

Skin color means nothing

Answer 10

Ummm.. Asian guy? Lol but seriously, your cousins have issues... date whoever you feel like dating.

Answer 11

Even though people that know you are trying to look out for you, you need to be able to think for yourself in this world.  People do good things and they do bad things and it has nothing to do with the color of their skin.  Think about it, if it's about races, then why is it that we find good and bad people in ALL races.  You need to take those factors out when judging a person's character.  You seem like a smart person.  Don't let the stereotypes fool you about people.  

Answer 12

Trust has nothing to do with ethnicity. It depends on the person. You could know one black guy, the most honest and trustworthy person you know, and another black guy can be just a two faced liar. Same goes for latino guys. And why wouldn't your mom let you date white guys? It seems to me like you guys are racist