What do i do about her?

Question

id give you a back story, but it really wouldn't help and its too long for me to take the time and type it. anyway...

there's this girl.. i REALLY like her. like, infatuated or something a little less than that.

we talk, a decent amount, but its mostly small talk. not a whole lot of flirting on her part (i don't know if that's on purpose or not, she's kinda shy, and could just be bad at it.. i am, lol) we IM sometimes, and when we do, we have these really deep, great conversations (which is different, because im usually a really poor conversationalist.) which last for hours on end (these been a few that started at like 10 and went until almost two.)

the problem with it, im always the one who initiates the convo. if i dont she just logs off eventually.(i ignore her online icon a lot, trying to see if things will be different this time, they never are)

ive seen her kinda stare at me and look away when i look back at one of her volleyball games (she wasnt playing, she was officiating lines at the time, if you play, you'll know what that means. btw, we're both on the volleyball teams.)

do yall think she likes me back or not?

is she backed off by her thinking i wouldnt date her (i used to date a different type of girl, but shes kinda shy & really smart)

is she just too shy to try anything?

this has been going on for months, and i'm driving myself crazy trying to figure it out, so i finally came to you.

Answer 1

it sounds like she likes you but she's too shy to say anything to you. i would just tell her how you feel, you'll never know unless you try.  

Answer 2

I think she may be shy around you and that's the reason for the small talk. The only other reason for small talk, that I can think of, would be that she doesn't like you. For the most part, I think maybe you just make her nervous.

I think the reason you're having deep conversations over IM and not in person would be the possibility that she's able to be honest over IM, as you're not standing right there.

Sometimes when I have a crush on a guy and we talk over IM, I do wait for him to initiate the conversation. I wouldn't worry much, as for me, I'm waiting to see how long it will take him to notice I'm online. The faster he notices and says something, the better the likelihood that he likes me. She could also be busy with other conversations and doesn't realize you're online until you say something.

I do think she likes you, but I do think she's really shy. Give her time to become comfortable around you, which could take a long time. If you don't feel like waiting, move onto someone else.  

Answer 3

Haaiii,

she might just be wayy too shy,

or afraid of rejection..

No one likes it..

I think you should like get out there, and tell her how you feel.

lol, I mean what is there to lose dudee?

If you don't wanna tell her, I'd atleast flirt with her more..

But in all seriousness,

tell her. :D and see what happens.

She could like you, but maybe not.

One way to find ouuuttt!!

:D