What do i do about my mom? she gets mad and frustrated sooo easily with me but is always calm and patient..?

Question

with my twin sister. my mom is not single so thats not a factor to her behavior. she doenst hit me she just yells and screams at me all the time. if i ask her if she can take me somewhere she will stop what shes doing, exaggeratedly sigh, then glare at me before saying im getting in her way she just wants some down time or is working in the yard. she and my sister get mad at me over the dumbest things ever. its like they team up im noteven kidding. like i accidentally got 2 of the same books for school and tricia asked my mom where hers was and i told her i have 2 and that she can have one. then my mom looks at me like im crazy asking why i have two, did i steal my sisters? but for some reason she YELLS at me while asking me these and i try to tell her they are both my i accidentally got two but all she does is yell at me and wont let me explaing. my mom always does this to me. i cant think of one time where i went out with my mom and she didnt get mad at me for one thing or another. its like im a disturbance to her life. i have tried talking to her about certain things a lot of times but she gets frustrated with me,starts yelling at me to drop th esubject then will neever talk about it again. so talking with my mom is out. what can i do? how do i handle these situations?

Answer 1

well i have the same life like yours and my mom hits me for no reason, If I was you tell your mom how you feel and how much you love her. It mate work because it did work with me and good luck. See Ya!                                                  

NAME: Nayeli Garcia

AGE: 13 years old

Answer 2

Hi Kim

I think most people go through what your going through, of feeling like they are getting the worst treatment among siblings.   You are being more of observant of what is happening to you and that's pretty normal. Try doing some observing with that in mind.

If you still feel like your mom treats you unfairly, then you will need to get to the bottom of it.   Ask your mom to have a talk time with you.   Maybe the answer is as simple as you do more things to annoy her than your sister does.   Ask your sister if she sees any unfairness going on.   Ask yourself if you are considerate enough toward your mother.   Do you try to help her with chores before you ask her drop what she is doing to take you where you please.   Think hard dear.  Your mother and sister are relationships you have for life in a bond of family love that will really matter a LOT.  So take good care.

Good luck

-Audrey