What do i do abt this girl now? Plzzzzzzz give a reply boys and girls.?

Question

Ive been talking to girl on phone whom i met on internet,Its been 2 and half months ,ive called her 5 to 6 times , although shes frank, but initially she agreed to meet me sometime and it was she who asked me for number and now she says she does not have time at present .

1st time i asked she said:- ya sure we can meet.

2nd time i called her next week to confirm she says: she has got seminars in college so no.

3rd time i called 2 weeks later: she says no again gives some stupid reason regarding college.

we always talked nicely except for 1 time i feel she was not in mood to talk at all, but wat i want to ask is tht im fed up of her this attitude.

* She hasnt called me even once but she smsd me few times.

* everytime gives stupid reason.

Ive decided tht ill not call her for a mont hand neither chat in orkut and yahoo frm my side, i wanna see her response.

So let me kno whether this decision of mine is right and/or should i after 1 month call her back and ask her whether we can meet or shldi let her go and show her tht its her loss and not mine.

Plz give honest answers boys and girls.

thanks.

Answer 1

i think u hav done  good thing by not talking to her for 1month,,.,,,,,

just wait 4 her response,, if she doesn then u call her after month and ask 4 reply,, if she gives u som positive response then good ,,, otherwise leave her,, she is not taking u seriously,, or u are taking her very seriously........................

Answer 2

I hope that girl isn't visiting YA :)

Answer 3

OMG, god bless you.

Answer 4

rtrt

Answer 5

u would not be happy if u marry her, she is game player, let her go, find other girl who is serious and believes in honest commitement

Answer 6

SHES JUST NOT INTERESTED IN MEETING U AT ALL.....SHE MAY ALREADY HAVA A BOYFRIEND,SO THATS WHY SHE'S JUST MAKING LAME & DUMB EXCUSES TO NOW WANT TO SHOW HER FACE....

OR MAY BE THAT SHE IS SCARED THAT U WILL NOT LIKE HER AFTER U MEET HER.....

HOW DO U KNOW THAT SHE IS REALLY FRANK,LOOK ON THE PHONE U CAN SAY LOT OF THINGS BUT IT DEPENDS ON THE INVIDUALS TO BELIEVE THEM OR NOT OR IF THEY ARE TRUE OR NOT???

LEAVE HER ALREADY, U ARE ONLY WASTING YOUR TIME WITH HER OK....& SHE'S NOT CALLING U COZ SHE KNOWS THAT U WILL WANT TO MEET HER & SHE DOESNT KNOW WHAT OTHER LIES TO SAY AGAIN TO U.....

IF SHE'S REALLY BEING TRUE THEN SHE WILL COME TO U...

Answer 7

i think you should just dump her!!!

Answer 8

Well, buddy its common thing. Just give her some space and let it be like this. In my point of view you seem to be little fast. Take it easy and do not try to call her. If you do you will irritate her and may loose her as a phone friend. Let this relation be a phone-friendship for time being. But most important thing, do not stop scraping her on orkut or text messaging by cellphone. Hope for the best, if she is a real girl and knows the importance of a relationship then she will definitely call you. Till then do not bother much about it. If she does not call you then forget her and move on.

Answer 9

You've given it a reasonable number of tries.  For some reason, she is not interested in meeting right now.  If she changes her mind, she will contact you.  In the meantime, dust yourself off and try again with someone new.  This is a normal part of dating and happens to everyone at some point.  Hang in there!

Answer 10

u should not respond to this girl she just playing with u she is not as serious as u r u should  close her file and move on in your life stop thinking of her she is a total nut!