What do i do and how to i get over her.?

Question

so me and this girl went out for about a year and a half. we did everything together . i was a really lucky guy. like i mean.. she's really popular shes funny shes the nicest girl i know in the whole world. AND SHES HOT. lol anwyays i was nothing compared right. but i still got her .. i have no idea how i managed it but i did. anyways we broke up about a month ago. we just fought way to much for a normal couple.. more towards the end. we were still really close after we broke up.. we did everything the same like we went movies went over each otehrs house cept we just didnt kiss or anything like that. so the other day i saw her at the mall with my friend eating lunch. and then apparently they went the next day as well. so i asked her about it and she said that shes getting over me. and it hurts because i still really like her and it doesnt seem to be gettign any easier. i can just see that her life is better now..she doesnt like me and shes having so much fun and im really happy for her but at the same time im really depressed because im not happy. my life sucks now. coz she was my life and yeah. i love her but i cant do anything about it.. and now her and my best friend are getting closer.. they go over each others house all these myspace comments to each other flirt = maximum and i cant do anything because we'r not together anymore.. yet i still like her the same. i feel like im being replaced with my best mate. and the hardest thing about it.. is remembering everything we did together. im sorry this is long but i dont really have anyone to talk to about this kind of stuff except my mates but u no.. guys and guys.. this is the stuff i used to tell her.. n now i cant i dont realy have that support system anymore u no. getting over her is hard enough.. and now im watching her and one of my best friends get closer.

Answer 1

same exact thing i went through

after about a year i 100% got over it.

you just have to channel your emotions and try new things and meet new people..the easiest way to get over someone is to move on to someone else

Answer 2

i'm so sorry. that's awful. all i can say is that i've been through some pretty bad breakups and i promise it gets better in time. breakups hurt like nothing else and it's bad, but your feelings for her will go away. it may take weeks or months but it won't last forever.