What do i do!? (girls pls help)?

Question

now i have liked this girl for years and i believe at some points she has liked me back but i have a terrible temper and have (please don't say cruel things i regret it so much and wish i could go back and never do it) lashed out at her twice the 1st time i was only 9 and i cant remember the other time i was put on the floor and everyone was laughing at me (i get bullied a lot) and i lost my temper another thing people-at my school no me as a bit of a crybaby as when i get realty angry i start to cry for no fault of my own plus i am (or was) a bit immature and silly i believe over the summer holidays (i am in my last week now) that i have matured and grown up a bit how do i get her to like me

Answer 1

Okay, first of all... you said that you think she has already liked you at some point (all by just being the real YOU) right?

You don't really have to change a lot. You just got to learn to control your temper when needed be. I'm also like you (a ticking bomb ready to explode)... But... people like us who are overly sensitive must learn to master control of our emotions.

When in the middle of a crisis or when something really humilliating has happened, learn to stop and pause... breathe in and out... think of neutral things that would take your mind off the embarrasment or anger or any other intense negative emotions.

Then, when you feel like your pulse and heart rate has returned to normal... open your eyes and smile...

Also, try showing her a bit of your masculine side... Don't look like a wimp in front of her and her friends. Show her that you could also be a gentleman for her. Do her favors or even just carry her books if she seems to be a bit tired or over burdened.

Do small things like pull her chair out for her... give her some of your extra candies or chocolate bar... tell her some corny jokes just to make her laugh... be thoughtful and creative.. but just don't over DO IT. Don't look desperate for her attention... Never EVER.

Ok?

:-) Little things matter, remember that.  

Good luck!

Answer 2

Try to show her that you grown up and mature now. Try to hang out with her as much as possible. Best of luck!Hope all goes well.

Answer 3

explain to her how you feel.

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Answer 4

try and spend some time with her  letting her get to know the "new you" the one who has grown up and matured.

Answer 5

Well everything takes time. If she is a resonably opened minded person who doen't judge people before she gets to know them, then you proberly have a chance with her. Just try to spend more time with her as a friend so she can get to know you (and hopefully a like you!) by herself. Just ask her to the movies or something with a group of mutual friends and see how things go. Best wishes and good luck!

Answer 6

show her that you've changed and make her believe it.

My boyfriend and my dad have had the worst tempers, you can't imagine. You have to work on it for yourself as well.  I bad temper will get you no where in life.  Its a terrible thing to have.  Really show her you care and that you changed. but you can't lie to her, you need to make sure you've really changed and not just bull shiting her so she'll like you.

Answer 7

Well it sounds like you've changed!

soo what do u do to prove that to her? show her!

show her caring, compassion, and friendship...

show her your not the cry-baby lil kid you've previously been known as... and then when your able to say with confidence she knows who you have become...

do something really nice to show her your feelings... write her a letter? if your not soo good with the upfront thing... or if you can, talk to her... allow her to feel what you do.. and if its meant to be! it will!!!!

:) just be smart about every situation at school and think of the consiquences... dont do things that aren't well thought through.

you'll be fine.. in the end.. be urself... who ever you think that is.

she should like you for who you are! not who u try to be.

Answer 8

you should add on the end how old you actually are, it could help people to advise you.

Answer 9

i recommend you try to spend as much time as possible with her. that's a good way to start. when you do hang out with her, try to make it casual- like a lunch or something.