What do i do? help please!!?

Question

a guy that i met a while back and i have become friends w/ benefits. cuz we live 70 miles from each other and barely get to see each other. over time, ive grown to really care about him, and he told me he really cares about me too.

i want to be with him, but im not sure if he'd want to be with me. i know he cares, but i have a huge fear of rejection.

and now there could possibly be a child involved..

any ideas for what i should do?

Answer 1

First you need to find out for sure if there is a child involved. And take it from there. If it's negative be patient and let things happen on their own if it's going to. But to be honest I'm sure he is playing out there since you don't see each other much. Caring for some one doesn't mean always more than that.

Answer 2

TALK to him woman! You have to talk to him. Don't count on people on yahoo to organize this! This is your life and you should be mature enough to sit down with this guy and talk to him instead of acting like a teenager running to strangers online for help. Especially now that there's a kid possibility. talk to him woman!!