What do i do i dont want to loose her?

Question

This girl and i where very close and it got very hot and heave and then she said see did not want to be in a relationship and started sleeping with her best friends brother and then coming to see me for s*x because she said i am better but she likes the idea that she is training him she also says she loves me and likes him she just dont want a relationship i really love this girl and i dont want to walk away from her what can i do

Answer 1

Be real!

Be real to your self and find someone who is worth your time.

Find a girl that only loves you and doesn't use you for s*x.

Answer 2

Uhm, shes using you, shes just saying that so you let her have s*x with you!

EDIT:

your a fantastic guy, for caring about her and not just being happy hat you got s*x. You deserve better, go out there and find a girl who loves you, and only you.

Answer 3

Who would you rather be uncomfortable, her or you?

Focus on your impression of self.  When you want to be happy, impress yourself with how creative you can become.

Challenge yourself to be more intellectual.  Take your educational and career plans up a notch.  Develop a circle of friends who are mutually supportive.  

Life is a piece of cake.  s*x is the icing.  Prioritize.

P. S.  She is already lost. You are just slow to respond.

Answer 4

youre gettin some and complaining?

Answer 5

Well how does it feel being used?  Now if you can deal with this stay, if not go...Why would you want someone who just doesn't want to be with you and does whatever she feels like?  If she cant commit its time to quit.