What do i do...i want another baby?

Question

ok i have a almost 4 year old and 18 month old...i have boy and girl, but would love one more...prefer a boy...hubby does not want anymore...neither of us are fixed...both kids were accidenst and he didnt want either of them at first and was upset but now he loves them so much...what should i do

Answer 1

Don't have any more children unless you both want them.  If you "trick" him into having another one against his wishes, you are being extremely disrespectful of him as well as selfish, and this is no way to treat someone you love.  Sit him down and have a heart-to-heart -- tell him why you want more kids and listen to his reasons for not wanting any more.  You can't force him to see it your way -- you'll just have to keep having the conversation until you are both ready -- or accept the fact that you're only going to have 2 children.  Good luck.