What do i do if i really love them both?

Question

O kay so i really really love this one boy but i am seeing some one, and i am not into him as much as i used to be we dont even talk and when we do its really really short... its also a long distance relationship...how do i tell my boy friend that in the nicest way possible without one of us hurting one another?

Answer 1

You can't period. Good Luck

Answer 2

OK, if I'm reading your question correctly, your BF is the long-distance relationship. Having been there myself several years ago, you should tell your long-distance BF that the distance issue is a problem for you and you don't have the strenght to do it. You aren't lying to him but you are telling him the truth -- that it's not working for you.

You are holding onto the long-distance relationship for something else. Yes, you may love him, but is it worth putting yourself through the difficulties of being apart and not being able to see one another?

It's not going to be an easy way out, no matter what you do. But you should be honest with yourself and do what's right for you.

I maintained my long-distance relationship for a year and a half before I moved home from college, but that was a very rocky one and a half years. We're still together today, but the beginning was tough. Good luck!