What do i do...im so confused?

Question

Well yeah as my luck would go ..me and my ex broke up a month ago today...woo hooo...cough yeah ...i still love him with my heart but i dunno...i started to move on b/c what else am i to do right..well yeah now i found out im pregnant...i dont know how far along...i'm guessin about 2 month or just short of it ...i started seein this other guy ...yeah ...well yeah not much to say there...its eithe rmy exes or this guys...doesn't say much about me huh..well i dont care what pep think of me...i am just worried about my baby...its not about me or anyone else but what is best for my baby...my ex's mom is like wanting it to be her sons...gotta love her ..she is like a mom to me..really close...and i was honest about the other guy with her...she still thinks its her sons....when i find out 2morrow how long i am...and if its my ex's ...how in the world do i tell him...i've never been so scared in my life...i'm not the type to try to trap someone in a relationship...in fact....i've always told him that were i to get pregnant ...i could raise her-him alone...i just dont want to be like labeled the trapper or the bad guy ...cause then my child will grow up around that ...and i dont want that...what to do ...should i even tell him '?/???

Answer 1

I think you should tell him, it is only the right thing to do. He has a right to know if it is his child. You should tell him in person, maybe you could meet him at his mom's house and tell him there. Then you'll have her support as well! Good luck!!

Answer 2

It's sad that you don't know who's child it is, but with that aside, yes, you should tell the father.  You may think me rash but, if you are not going to be a married mother, I respectfully suggest adoption.  You mentioned that it is about what is best for your baby .  .  .  two loving parents (mother & father, natural or adoptive) is what is best for your baby.

Answer 3

Well, find out how far along you are. If you know for sure its your ex's go tell him for sure. He needs to know (and help financially as well as some free baby-sitting for you)

If its not his no reason to tell him, I'm sure he will find out from his mom but don't stress him out until you know for sure. IMHO.

There is nothing wrong with a single mom either. Hey, I'm married but in many ways Im a single mom. My husband works 14 hr shifts 7 days a week three quarters of the time. Hows that any different?

Good Luck! Babies are wonderful, don't miss a moment!