Confidence. Like i have alot i'm head strong and i like to try new things i can take care of myself i'm smart i do break some rules but i'm 18 so what if i stay out past 12 o'clock? as long as it doesn't hurt my grades then i'm okay. and he well hes smart always does the right thing, he can't lie, at all, doesn't stay out past 10.30 and hes 19 I love him to bits and pieces but hes such a mommy boy, he doesn't have alot of self confidence and i'm trying to get him to be more confident in himself, but his family treat him like a kid, and make important decision for him or "persuade" him to think a certain way. They even tried to break me and him up, and tehy did but were still together now, but the they would say things like oh your still to young what about school and you don't hang out with your friends anymore when i quote she told him that he was hanging out with his friends to much. and later on i found out the only reason why she was telling him to stop seeing me was because she didn't like his mom always asking where he was. -_- well now hes has low self-confidence doesn't really know what to do in life, needs to grow up, i tried encouragement, but now i want to just push him out of the d**n nest, but with that i'm giving him the tough love treatment. Hes very respectful but i want to understand that if he loves something he should fight for it no matter what, and not to be scared what other people think, i'm trying to get him to think on his own? How do i go about doing this. and i know he just needs time but hes not really doing anything to change. =[
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