What do i do please answer?

Question

yeah sorry it's another family problem. but please i need your help. I got in a fight with my family yesterday and if you look at my other q's you'll see how abusive and crazy my dad is. well anyways my parents were yelling at me and my mom told me either i stop acting like i am or she'll kick me out. I honestly hate my dad and want him dead, so i can't pretend like it's all okay. I feel like i have no choice or opinion in this. he's beaten my mom sent her to the E.R stolen from her and broken her things, and she still picks him over her three kids. I even asked her to let us go to therapy and she won't, i can't do anything!!! I feel like i'm dieing what do i do?

Answer 1

Get out of the house and go to the police.  I know you might still have some feelings for your mom but do you honestly want to stay in a house with an abusive father and a mom who loves a guy who beats her?  Take your siblings and leave like when they think your at school or at night.  Contact a family member who can help or tell a teacher.  But I still would stick with the police thing.  I hope your parents don't do anything serious and wish you well.

Answer 2

i went trough this im 41 now ,im the dad  me and my wife fist fought beat on each other,drank cussed cheated on each other,my boy is nineteen now i see how it affected him.well i finally gave my life to the lord jesus crist ,it all chaned all of it,everything most of all god opened my eyes to who i was and to how i was killing my family ,Look people got alot of advice some good some bad,but im tellin ya without him your not gonna make it it will effect you for the rest of your life every relationship  whoever your with theyll be paying for what your folks done,if you could find a small local church go on sunday mornigs listen for the lord ,i trust baptist churches so if you could find one,if you start a relatinship with crist he,ll heal your heart first,lets be onest one day youll be outa the house anyway plus if we cant svae ourseves  we cant save anyone,the lord he,ll do .the bible says when my mother and father forsake me the lord will take me up.i was waiting to come across a problem like yours ,this is the lords attempt to help you

Answer 3

Tell another family member about it (one not living with you), tell a teacher or counselor at school, go to the police, or you can try therapy and tell the therapist the problems with your family.  You can also plan with your siblings to contact any of those people.

Good luck.  Try at least one of those, if you don't, it will just get worse.

Answer 4

call the police on some phone obviously other than the home phone/ talk to a councilor or teacher at school. it would probably be more effective if you can have strong evidence of these things happening (video, recording, picture) more than once.That way its not just like oh she's exagerating. Good Luck

Answer 5

I would get the police involved. If your dad keeps abusing everyone than that is a matter for the family courts. Your mom would probably get mad at this but it is for the better and she will realize this. It's not right for her to choose him over her kids. Depending how old you are if the family court thing doesn't work out I would just take your sibling and get out. It will be really hard to do just leave your mom like that but you need to protect yourself and your siblings. Maybe there is a relatives house you can go and take your siblings. Best of luck.