What do i do? plz i need help?

Question

ok so my dad drinks alot and when he gets angry he gets violent and i get scared and then my mom just lets it happen what should i doo

Answer 1

First person for you to talk to is your school counselor. They are avail during school and they do not have to tell your parents you are talking to them. Let them know what is going on and they can talk to you about it and get the proper authorities involved. You should not be dealing with this alone and it's not your fault. No one should ever be hit on by their parent or anyone else, it doesn't matter that he drinks or not.

It's not your fault and you don't deserve to be treated like that. Talk to your counselor the next day you have school and they can set you up with a regular counselor that will help you deal with all of this. Good luck.  

Answer 2

I was totally in the same place a couple years ago, what i did was i just went to my mom and told her calmly that if she didn't act like a real mother and do something to solve the situation that i would go to the police, that worked for me because my brother and i both had bruises from my dad, so we had physical  evidence, if you have any, you should tell your mother the same thing i did, or you could always try to talk to your dad when he's sober, i hope this helps, i really do.

Answer 3

First of all!NEVER EVER CONFRONT YOUR DAD! Drunk or sober! As far as your mother is concerned she's not letting anything happen, she can;t stop it either! and I would imagine she is as scared as you are most of the time,when he comes home, drunk and verbally abusive, and physically abusive, then you pick up the phone and call the police, and tell them your dad is drunk and is being abusive to you and your mom, and that you want him taken out of the home and put in the drunk tank, it may take your mother to straighten up her backbone, and press charges on your dad for the abuse,, the courts will make him quit drinking, sober up, if there is just one more act of violence against you or your mother, he will go to jail for awhile, until he gets in his head he doesn't touch you or your mother!REMEMBER WHEN HE COMES IN DRUNK AND STARTS THE ABUSE PICK UP THE PHONE AND CALL THE POLICE TO COME TO YOUR HOUSE, AND IF NEED BE TAKE YOU AND YOUR MOM OUT OF THE HOUSE, A GO OUTSIDE AND WAIT FOR THE LAW OK!?I will be praying for you,your mom, and your dad!Your dad has to put in his head he can not drink anymore because if he does, and hits either one of you he's gone! The only one can keep him sober!!IS HIM!!

Answer 4

hey girl...

i think u should talk wit ur mom... i was in a similar situacion a couple of years ago and i talked with both my parents about the situation and it really helped...now i really get along with them!!! good luck...!

Answer 5

tell some one!! right away!!!