What do i do.............?

Question

okay i gots another ? im pretty sure that im pregnant and my boyfriend doesnt want the baby but said he would support what ever i decide. But i dont want to keep the baby and make him feel like im holding him down. Then he said that we would have to get married and stuff and i dont want to. And if i have this baby ill be stuck with him and i dont know what to do. Cause i cant imagine an abortion and dont want to think of it.. So ne advice?

Answer 1

Even if you are pregnant you dont have to get married. When you make the decision to have unprotected s*x you take the risk of getting pregnant. You could always give the baby up for adoption there are many people out there that would love to have a baby that cant. But in the end its your choice.

Answer 2

You dont have to get married to him just because you are pregnant, that is just a recipe for disaster. And you wont be stuck with him for the rest of your life. This is your decision and no one elses and he has already said he will support you, that doesnt mean you have to be together for that to happen.

good luck and if you need to chat just send me a msg x =)

Answer 3

First of all, find out for sure if you ARE pregnant.  If you're not, then I suggest you stop having s*x with someone you don't want to have a child with.  If you ARE pregnant, then you can choose whether you want to keep the baby or not, get married or not, stay with your BF or not.  He can't MAKE you marry him.  For future reference, though, these are all questions that you should have answers to BEFORE you start having s*x with someone.