What do i do to stop nagging at my partner?

Question

every time she is two minutes late coming to pick me up or if she takes forever to sent a text, i make stupid comments like oh you had better things to do, go hang with your friends instead, and i always think negatively towards her for no reason. she never gave me a reason not to trust her. i really need some help to stop this! i really love her, and i don't want this to ruin us because she thinks i always think bad about her. please help!

Answer 1

One of the best things you can choose to do is to start saying nice things about her. There is great power in positive words. Most guys think they can change a person using harsh words. But they will not change her for good, only for bad. Start out with saying "Thank you for picking me up." or "I appreciate you going out of your way" Just nice little words of appreciation will make a HUGE difference. Try it. Any good healthy relationship has both trust and respect and each will want to serve the other.

Answer 2

sounds like you have a bit of a jealous streak!

just think about how ridiculous you must sound and how you would feel if someone was rude and accusing of you in these situations.. that should help you stop!  

Answer 3

yeah man just bight ya tongue i used to be like u and end up havin fights with her all the time now i just shut me gob & ball is great even get heaps of s*x now i've turned a new leaf & if they aint reason enough to shut up yr a lost corse'

Answer 4

try replacing those negative thoughts with positive ones, eg. instead of noticing what she doesnt do, find and comment on the things she does do that u appreciate. Good luck!