What do i do when my friends are fighting?

Question

Me friends are fighting so i canty go and spend time with both of thm because they both say they wants nothing to do with each other im so angry at them because they are making it harder on me im so over it. what am i ment to do for them to relise that what they are doing is pathetic?

Answer 1

Remind them of all of the fun things you did when they weren't fighting.  Maybe they'll come around lol

Answer 2

Make new friends!

And- when they both are like "UHHH, HELLO why are you not hanging out with me" Let them know that you are "so over it" and that you don't need that kind of drama in your life!

Believe me- life it TOO short to waste your life on petty drama!

Go get a job, or volunteer at a local animal shelter, or a nursing home....it will give you something MEANINGFUL to do rather than wasting your life away on those "friends"

Answer 3

Ask them both to meet you at the same time and place without telling them the other will be there. When they both arrive (they will be mad) make them wait a minute. Tell them you have something to say. They don't have to talk to each other, but you need them both to listen for just one minute. Tell them you know their disagreement is not about you, and you are not choosing sides. Say they are both important to you, but if they care about you at all, they will realize how their fighting is affecting you. (You could even say they are stressing you out, making you cry, lose sleep, whatever you want so they understand how bad they are making you feel.) Ask them if they care about you and if they think what they are doing is fair to you....Then ask them if there is really nothing they can do to make up with each other so you are not in the middle...if not, then say they have to come up with some way for you to be able to be friends with them both or you will not be friends with either one of them. (surely they will have some answer to that) Bring up the good times you've had together, and tell them how much they mean to you, but you can't sacrifice your health, happiness, or sanity because they can't figure out how to get along....hope it all works out for you...

Answer 4

friends are like flowers .... like gift of nature

we makes friend whom we like we can not feel free with everybody

friends can not easly break each other

life is very difficult without nice and cool friends

you just force them to avoid the fighting and live gentle

*..........life is good having friendship............*

Answer 5

leave them 'til their rage passed. after that, try to approach both of them and say what they're doing is hopeless and would mean breaking their friendship. also, say that as you are their friend you're the ones who's caught in the middle.. for sure they would realize how bad is it to just throw everything and anything..