What do i do when my mom is dating a guy i dont like

Question

ok so my mom is talking to this guy nd i think hes a douche!! but she likes him for some reason... nd its hard for me to really accept the fact that my mom is dating guys bcuz of the past nd all the things my dad did! but this guy she talking to now seems like a sarcastic *** ***** nd thinks hes hella funny when hes not! also he seems like hes trying to force all of his opinions on to my mom nd make her believe them too, so basically he is Trying to change her, which i think she shouldnt do for no man! nd lately shes beensayingn she tired but when he calls at like 1 or 2 in the morning she wide awake nd can talk to him forever! nd when i do want to talk to her she dont even want me next to her! wtf?? but i tried to deal with it but cant, like when i 1st found out bout it i used to cuss yell everything at her nd get so mad i would juss cry out of nowhere... but now it still bugs me a lot!! nd i only have outburst once in awhile!

but in the end i want my mom to be happy, but i really think this is the wrong guy for her... what should i do??

Answer 1

 wow. that sounds just like my situation word for word.

if your mom is anything like mine, its hard to get her to actually hear you out

but dont give up, dont nag her, but explain your view when you get the opportunity.

try to undertand that your mom may be craving male attention which can make her overlook negative qualities in a person.

everyone wants to be loved, even if it means putting up with stuff they shoudln't

its hard for a lot of people to demand what they really want in a person cus of the horrible fear of being alone

your mom is a grown woman, its not your job to take care of her

try to be understanding, it will take you a long way

Answer 2

i need help too wiht something like this . . .what do i do if my mom is dating my half sisters dad and then lying about it to me, my dad and my little brother. my mom left to the cities and we didnt know why, everyone said theat she was with my sisters dad(who my sister hasnt seen since she was 14 shes now 22but my dad has been there for her since she was 3) her dad recently got out of a marriage and decided to come to minnesota my mom rana off with him and my dad is really hurt because they were gonna get back together this has happened before 2! any way my mom lied to my face and so did some family members i know this because later on she admitted it my dad was so furious and hurt and me and my little brother felt so betrayed that i cried myself to sleep for three days straight  shes still running ff with him and my brother is spending nights at mine and my dads place what do i do!!!!?????