What do i do when somebody says they want to marry me?

Question

okay, normally i would follow my heart (if i wanted to marry this person, id say yes, if not, id say no) BUT my sister is in love with the guy who wants to marry me and i love him so much...what do i do? my sister is married to a guy she doesnt love by the way...

Answer 1

Your sister is married, period.

You and this fellow love each other, so if he's worth any sisterly disharmony that may occur, marry him.

Have a talk with your sister about how you two are in love, and want to marry. She needs to focus on herself, her husband, and her marriage.

Answer 2

That is weird.  She is married to someone else and it isn't your problem if she doesn't love him.  If you are in love with the guy who wants to marry you and he is in love with you then say yes and don't worry about your sister.  She will have to get over it.  She is probably just jealous because she is unhappy in her marriage.

Answer 3

Ask you sister what you should do then I guess. She may need to lay claim to this man as a back up in case she decides she wants out of her  marriage.

Answer 4

sounds like your sister has problems and you better move off after you marry that guy you love

Answer 5

Forgive me but if you have to ask this question.  You are not ready for marriage.

Peace!  I have answered  this with your best interest in mind!

Answer 6

This is a hard one. I hate to say you have to choose but you may have to. You are taking a risk that if you marry this man your sister might not want to talk to you, but if you let him go for her you will always be wondering and if u truly love him u will be heartbroken. You have to decide which one it would be far greater to lose. If you want to be real, your sister has a nerve, she's married already and cutting in on your action/happily ever after. She made her choice. It would be different if this guy was interested in pursuing her (I'm assuming he is not because he wants you). He loves you, Im sure she will get over it. She is probabaly just infactuated with him because she is unhappily married. If I was you I would present the situation to her. If she is a good sister she will be happy for you. Did she not know that you two were seeing eachother? ( you didn't specify) If he was your boyfriend why would she be surprised that you guys are getting married? You just need to talk to her honey, because at the end of the day blood is thicker than water. Husbands can come and go but family is family. Hope I helped

Answer 7

JARRY!!! JARRY!!! JARRY!!!

Answer 8

don't marry the guy just becuase ur sister or ur family or anyone else approves of him. it's your entire life that's invovled. it's a commitment, so, take the time to really think about it.

also, if you decide based on what others say, and if it doesn't work out in the end, it just opens the door to blaming each other for 'making' you marry the guy.

if you really love the guy and are willing to work at the relationship for the rest of your life, then, say yes. if you're not sure, wait a while. tell the guy to give u some time. if he really loves you, he would wait.  

Answer 9

You need to talk to your sister and let her know that you love him and he loves you. She is also married and she needs to focus on herself and her marriage. Just talk. Hopefully things will work out.

Answer 10

bust out the champagne and get eloped!