What do i do? who needs it more?

Question

my fiancee is going to graduate from boot camp in september, and i was saving up to go see him so i could support him, and visit one last time before he goes to more training, i wont be able to see him for another six months after that. but my moms car just died, and she is a real estate agent, she NEEDS her car. she doesnt have any money for groceries, let alone to fix her car...i could pay to fix it for her, but i wouldnt be able to go see my fiancee and show him my support, what do i do?

Answer 1

See him!

Answer 2

if you already had plans or promised you're gonna go see your fiance, then you should stick with what you planned in the beginning. it's hard to choose between the 2...but I wouldn't stand to be such a long time away from my BF

Answer 3

I'd give my mom first priority. Phone your b/f and tell him of your problems.  

Answer 4

get a rental... its really not that expensive

Answer 5

That's a tough one.... Can your mom get a loan to fix her car or get a new one? I'm pretty sure that your fiance would like to see you at his boot camp graduation.  

Answer 6

You need to go see you fiancee. Mom needs to take care of her problems herself. If you have the x-tra money then help her but do not take something away from yourself. If you bail her out everytime she gets in a jam you will always have to help her out because she will depend on you. Trust me! Let her find another means of transportation until she can afford another car.

Answer 7

She is an adult and will have to figure this one out on her own...use the money that u saved on being with your man

Answer 8

See your fiancee, and ask him for the money to fix your mom's car. Now you find out what kind of man he is.