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Question

ok, so my friends boyfriend just dumped her. it was a long relationship and she really did love him. she's broken now. she's pretty much been crying her eyes out for the past 2 days. i don't know what to do or what to say....i need help what can do to make it better. the worst part is, i just moved, as in, we are now states away...so what the heck can i do? what should i say?

Answer 1

Im really sorry to hear about your friend. Maybe just say something like "you know what hun, you deserve soo much better then him. and im not just saying that. i really do think you can do much better then him". These people at this site really do help. you should check it out the next time you need advice.

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Answer 2

Make up things you can do together that will get him off her mind.

Try to avoid things that WILL remind,

sad songs,

romance movies,

his favorite things,

Take her to the pool, out 2 eat, shopping!

Answer 3

just let her know ur ther 4 her. try calling n keeping in contact. she'll eventually heal but i knoe its hard. its even harder becuz u can't really be there with her but don't wrry jst try ur best. knowing that u care is probably already helping her loads :)

Answer 4

send flowers. Or chocolates. I am sure that would cheer her up. Or just a card to let her know that you are thinking of her. Try not to mention it too much unless she wants to talk.

Answer 5

you have her number right?

call her, stay on the phone with her as long as she wants, she needs someone to talk to.

And tell her the boys gotta be g*y if he dumped a girl like her,

haha my friend told me that once and it made me feel better ;]

Answer 6

just tell her ow much better she is than him

Answer 7

Does she live in a big town? Have some ice cream and flowers delivered to her house. Just be there for her if she wants to talk. Time will help and she will be able to move on.

Answer 8

Tell her everything happens for a reason. And someday she will find that special someone that would never hurt her.

Answer 9

send her flowers ?

Answer 10

There isn't really much you can do but be there for her and listen to what she has to say.

I have been where she is and I wasn't really wanting anyone to say anything, I just wanted someone to listen to me. Even if she may ask questions like why?...what am I supposed to do?...questions like that, I asked but I really didn't want answer. The answer was actually within me. I had to make up my mine and come to light that it really isn't the end of the world and only time and God can heal the wound(s). It will take time, trust me.

She just wants someone to listen to her...hope this helps. I will keep her in my prayers. Also you, that God gives you what to say if need be. Take Care.

Answer 11

she'll be fine,it just takes time.let her cry & vent to you.it will pass.