What do i do with my sister?

Question

my sister is a total beyotch and i hater her soo much. i never say i hate anyone and i never swear but thats how much i dont like her! i cant wait for her to go to college and get away from me. and i'm not even kidding. shes the worst person ever. everyone thinks so even my parents think so. she yells all the time and even talks backs to my parents all the time.

what do i do in the mean time before she goes to college?

Answer 1

Try making up with her. Suppose something happened to your sister and you never made ammends. You would feel pretty bad. Life is too short to stay mad at your own sister.

Answer 2

Stay away from her.  

Answer 3

Try to not let her get to you, and I'm sure you don't hate her, mebbe just dislike the person she is right now..

Answer 4

stay away from her as much as possible

Answer 5

I have a sister like that. She thinks the sun rises and sets just for her. I know it's easy for me to say "ignore" her, but it's true. Every time you go at each other, you're giving her what she wants, a chance to keep running her mouth and talking c**p. Your parents aren't helping, they needed to put her in her place A LONG TIME AGO. You can either just tell her she isn't worth it or just walk away. I would just say to my sister, " You're not worth it" and walked away. She wanted a fight and I wasn't giving to her.

Answer 6

believe me ............... i can feel u

i have been there ............. actually i still there .........

there is an only way i know ....................

at least it works 4 me ......................

just ignore her like if she is a ghost ............... avoid talking to her as much as you can .

and she will ignore you back .......... i think

dont ask her anything ........... and dont give her any

and dont allow her 2 change your mood  

but ......if she do .........u should NEVER show her that her talking or

yelling had a bad effect on you ........

i hope that i helped you ..............

as i have the same problem with my brother .

god help us .......................

see u

Answer 7

ignore her while the time being

Answer 8

I went through a similar situation with my older half sister a few years ago.  She came to live with us for half a year after having problems with her mom, and she was HORRIBLE.  Almost every night there was an argument between her and my parents.  I'm assuming she's a good bit older than you, like 3 to 5 years.  If so, then her hormones are going nuts, and she's rude because her body is telling her that its time for her to move on from her family.  It's natural, but she shouldn't let it take control of her.

What I did was caught her in a good mood and started talking to her.  She'll be less likely to freak on you when she has a mood swing if she remembers the two of you had a laugh earlier in the day.  If you can't catch her in a good mood, try having friends over often.  People her age are more likely to be rude with people she knows than with people she doesn't know very well.  Believe me, she'll avoid embarrassing herself at all costs.  

I hope I helped!

Answer 9

Stay away from her

Answer 10

If she has that kind of attitude, she won't be in college for long. She'll be right back at home getting on everyones nerves. Do you have any other relatives that you can stay with in the meantime?

Answer 11

Try to keep your distance and stay calm.  She will leave.  She will grow up and learn and most likely will not act that way forever.  

Answer 12

Hi,

I can see your frustration with dealing with your sister.  She seems to be a person hard to get along with - including your parents.

I suggest that you have a private talk with your parents and tell them in a very rational tone that it is hard for you to get along with her.  Be very mature when you speak to them and try not to use the word "hate" or that she is "the worst person ever".

Tell them that you need to find some other living arrangements and see if you can move with another relative or a friend until she goes to college.  

Explain to your parents that sometimes a healthy separation helps everyone.  That maybe, if you move away temporarily, she can feel more relaxed and be a better daughter.

Best wishes to you,

Agua