What do i do?My friend is always copying!?

Question

ok.so i have this friend and we have known each other for like 6yrs.(yep long enough)sometimes i wish i didn't meet her.i tell her a secret and she tells EVERYONE.i don't think i should trust her anymore.She copys everything.I bought black and white converse last year.and she said they were ugly and that they were for rockers and things like that.but it turns out that she buys some this year!and she always asks where i buy my clothes and she judges them and then the next day i go to her house she has the exact ones!i hate that! everything i have she HAS to have.she copy's me and some other people alot!. sometimes i wonder if she has any friends! please help me! what should i do?

Answer 1

confront her about it. not in a rude way just let her know.

if she keeps doing it drop her shes not worth it.

Answer 2

Don't show her anything you buyed. Lock them in your cupboard or something. Don't tell her any secrets just be quiet. I know it is annoying when people do that.

Answer 3

Talk to her and tell her you're fed up of her copying you. She needs to find her own style.

The next time that she spreads a secret, tell her that you don't trust her enough to tell her an even bigger, more important secret 'cuz she let you down... she'll know how it feels.

If she still doesn't listen to you, she's not a true friend and you need to let her go.

Answer 4

She sounds annoying. Find new friends. Or explain this to her and how it's gotten to the point where you can't take it. She'll either be a good friend and understand (and hopefully change her ways) or she'll be annoying and she'll stop talking to you. Either way is fine. :]

But remember, imitation is the finest form of flattery. I sense some jealousy from her..

Answer 5

spend less time with her shes being a jerk to you so shell lose you as a friend. if she asks why u dont want to hang out with her tell her the truth. if shes says the stupid and is still mean to you stop being friendly to her . I have a friend like that and that wat i did