What do i do!!PLEASE help!!!?

Question

My best friend forever Melissa is a Chineese,&& American girl.Shes my bestest friend ever!She is like my twin sister.Shes honest,playful,and respects me.We have everything in common,We look alike,and we respect eachother.Theres only one problem.I am catholic and her family belives in Buddah.They say if i dont belive in Buddah i can never see her,call her,Or go to her house again or they'll call the cops.What do i do!?

Answer 1

Oh, this is a tight situation. First thing first, get a lawyer (Jut in case the family does call the police) Now how long have you been friends for? Have you ever done anything to upset the family, if you have just say sorry and apologise. I hope this helped you out,

Johno.  

Answer 2

That is really narrow minded of them.  I wonder why they are being so protective of their daughter.  I think that is quite sad.  Good luck.

Answer 3

First of all - how old are you and what do your own parents have to say?

It's odd for Buddhists to be so intolerant - poor Melissa, stuck with such bigoted parents.

I can only suggest that you write them a respectful letter, saying that you have no intention of converting her to your religion, that you respect theirs and will they kindly respect yours. Pay attention to spelling & grammar, btw - it's Buddha, believe, Chinese - and Catholic has a capital C. You want to come across as a sensible, responsible person.

If they called the cops, btw - what would they tell them?

If you're still at school, have a word with a teacher about all this.

Good luck!

Answer 4

Try to talk to her family and convince them that u wont do them or their religion any harm. Go to the extreme for friends!

Answer 5

they obviously have a strong religion. tell them u believe in jesus, if they cant except that then there discriminating you. tell them that. if worse comes to worst  secretly hang out with melissa.

Answer 6

so this is my opinion.........if you don't believe in buddah you're friends must respect it........you said that you respect each other so that she must respect you're decision.....you must told her that you are catholic.....you don't believe in buddah....you must say it to her in a good way.if she get angry for what you've said that is not true friendship because you don't have respect each other.she must respect you're decision.....hope it helps you........

Answer 7

hey..

thatz really silly on her family's part.u have ur own religion nd shez has hers.u cant really start getting into sum other religion in 2mins.even if u do,it'll take u alot of time to adjust.

ask ur frnd wat she wants.if she too thinks this way then sry to say,shez not ur best frnd in any respect then.and if she doesnt think that way then u can be in touch with her thru mails,calls etc without telling her family.

and tell her family to grow up.tell them God is one,be it catolic or chinese.n they can NOT call police in anyways.they r just trying to scare u off.being frnds with sumone of different religion is no crime.

Answer 8

be assertive you loser you can still be friends and not go to her house seriously they CANT do that and tell melissa to talk to them and if that doesnt work then theyre not worth getting involved with eh?