What do i say to my boyfriend?

Question

my boyfriends baby brother was born 11 weeks early a few months ago and he has been a bit ill but he is seriously ill he has been rushed to hospital what is the right thing to say to my boyfriend i dont want to say something stupid and put my foot in it :(

Answer 1

Just tell him you are there for him if he needs to talk and remind him that you care about him. Help him through it if he needs it, hugs help alot

xx

Answer 2

Just tell him you love him (if you are to that point) and your there for him.

The best thing to do is to actually be there for him, you dont really need to say anything just put a hand on his knee or hold his hand.

Answer 3

Words of encouragement and comfort and also talk about other things other than the sick bro, provided its light stuff. Wish the baby well.

Answer 4

Don't say anything...a smile, squeeze his hand, a quick kiss and a hug are enough...

Answer 5

It strongly depends on the moment. Sometimes when someone is grieving all they need is someone to hear them out. You may just need to listen or he may need a hug,kiss or anything. You will know what to do when it comes. Good luck. Just make sure you do what you feel is in your heart.

Answer 6

All you can really do is be there & comfort your boyfriend and his family. Just assure your bf that you'll be there right by his side during this entire ordeal. Also, give him hope that his baby brother will make it through this and that he can always count on you to lend a shoulder to lean on..or cry on.