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Question

i have a brother thats only 13 and im 16 and he is driving me crazy...i am so ready to knock the s*** out of him...and i would do it, the only reason im holding back is because i know i can mess him up really bad..so you know im just ignoring him but my patience is wearing thin..he is constantly doing the same kinda c**p that would make anyone want to punch him right in the mouth...and i made him cry like 3 times today and he still wont stop...and idk i blame it on my parents because they never punish us and i think thats the reason why hes been acting out, and i feel like since their not doing nothing about it im the one that has to do it...and right now im at the point where im getting sick of all the people that live in the house... i just want to leave already and just be as far away from them as i can...i need help what should i do?

Answer 1

Well he&#039;s 13 so he thinks the fact that he sorta grew some balzs gives him the right to be annoying. My three brothers are the same. I just ignore them and make sure that they know I&#039;m still the one in charge till I go to collage. With 7 kids in my family(no we&#039;re not mormon) we have a kind of pecking order. Just let him know respect the older ones cuz his turn to be the oldest will come when you leave. Just tell him he&#039;s younger so he has no seniority so call shotgun as many times as you want :)

Answer 2

Your brother is going through a tough age with puberty and all. cut him some slack he is looking for attention and he isn&#039;t getting it from your folks and getting even bad attention from you is better than none at all.

Spend some quality time with him each day something he will look forward to in exchange for his letting you have some private time.Go to the park play a game play B Ball or something he really enjoys. You will be out on your own soon enough and then he won&#039;t have anyone at all. and you will have the rest of your life to do as you please.  

Answer 3

beat him up really good once .. that should teach him, thats what i do :)

Answer 4

Im really sorry that you have to go through this [: Well, little brothers are always annoying. I dont know what he&#039;s doing but whatever it is, respond in Love,, not anger. I know it&#039;s really really hard, but you need to show him that you are a good person to look up too, he probably just needs a big sister to love him because your parents arent giving him enough discipline. Try to talk to him, talk to your parents. Try to work something out. Don&#039;t stress out about everything because it makes things worseee! Trust in God, He&#039;s always with you [: Be the best role model you can be and be as loving you can be to ur little twirpy ;) Broo! Best of luckk! Much love,

Sarah [:

Answer 5

i got a younger sister n all that 2 dont let **** get to u ull be straight there not much u can do but treat em like dogs lure him into a place with a video game or somethin he can keep his hands busy n all that u ull b straight you cant act like a lil kid too when u fight wit him u gotta act like your they mother n all that you kno he sees that hes pissin u off tho n that what he wants more u fight wit him more he fight back u gotta bribe him somehow  

Answer 6

two words, ICY HOT

Answer 7

tell him 2 stop playin around with you..

that your gona hurt him really bad. to stop bothering,,

tell your mom or dad.. or w.e. just dont hurt the poor kid.!

Answer 8

Beleive me, life is tough. When I was that age, my parents were the exact oposite. I was punished for the smallest things you can think of. All I wanted to do at that time was leave, move out and live as far away on my own as possible. that way I could do whatever I wanted. now Im 21 ... I live on my own, I make my own decisions, and I do &quot;whatever I want&quot;. That is when I am not at work doing what my boss wants, or paying bills, or all the other things that you have to do when your in charge. Trust me . . . life only gets harder, you will never have it better than you do right now. If you don&#039;t kill your bro, then when you are my age he can stick up for you when you get in a tight spot, help you out, and give you the love that syblings have for eachother when they grow up. that is if you are good to him now, and do your best to treat him with respect. I know it&#039;s hard, hang in there!! Your parents are trying, and they are doing there best. Let them handle your bro!!

Answer 9

when i was ur age, i had problems at home too, so i saved up for a plan ticket, and then flew to nebraska.  my aunt and uncle raise cattle on a farm.  so i moved in with them, and they took over guardianship of me until i was 18, and then i moved on my own.  i have not seen my parents or my siblings since i was 16, and i havent spoken to them since i was 18.  i am now 27, and i dont need them.  life is good.

Answer 10

I guess the best advice that I can give is to try to talk to him and see why he is acting out. If he does not cooperate then I would suggest going to talk to your parents and let them know what is going on and how you feel. If that does not work then see if you can hold on for two more years so that you can move out when you turn 18. I wish that I could help you more but I really don&#039;t know what to say in that matter.