What do i tell my best friend?

Question

My best friend has been steady with her guy for an yr, and then she found out that her guy had another girl at the hotel with him for 3 days and an yr had her in his house for 3 day. All this while telling my best friend "I love you". The guy loves her to death and so does she, he has begged for forgiveness and she is willing to forgive. However she at times comes to me with this beady eyes and worries. I know i would be broken if I were her and would even leave the guy. What should i tell her? Should i shoo sh or actually tel ll her something? Funniest thing is they are from Asia (where anything outside marriage is a crime) so it is very very huge for her......and her culture

Answer 1

it dosent matter about culture tell her u love her and u want to be with her ......im a date doctor i know this stuff.

Answer 2

You should be honest with your friend. Tell her how you feel about what he did to her, and how you are there for her no matter what choice she makes. If she is coming to you, she is obviously having doubts about being with him, but may just need to be sure she has someone to back her up and support her with her choice. Let her know it's her decision and you just want her to do what is best for her... not what's best for anyone or anything else.. just for her and her own happiness, because in the end that is what matters. As for this guy, he sounds like a creep and if he really did love her as much as he says he wouldn't have been with some other girl, all his extra time would be devoted to your friend. Good luck and your friend is lucky to have you by her side!

Answer 3

You are her friend and you need to talk to her. Give her your honest opinion but tell her that in the end it is her choice of whether or not to take him back. As a friend it is your job to help her through tough times like these and keeping quiet may be easier but it may not necessarily be better for her.