What do men really want in a wife?

Question

What makes a man actually appreciate his wife? What would men expect in a wife to make them happy?

Answer 1

I think the answer to this can vary slightly between people, but what men want in marriage is similar to what all people want in marriage - a companion, a friend, and a lover.

For me personally, I want to be able to be friends with my wife first and foremost, so take an interest in what he likes, just like men should do for their wives.

We all want a loyal, loving mate, someone who has our back through good times and bad, and someone who never insults us around other people no matter how foolish we are acting!

And of course...we do want a w***e in the bedroom.  In other words, never stop trying new things to spice s*x up.  Act on wild fantasies as long as they will not comprimise your marriage (threesomes may not be a great idea, for example but s*x on a hotel balcony can do wonders!!!).  

Oh, and one last thing, one thing my wife and I vowed to each other in private before marriage...is to always try to look good for your mate.  Stop making excuses for being overweight, and not working out or looking nice.  All men want to be proud of their wives...so try hard to stay looking nice.  Not only will it help your marriage it will help your own self confidence.

Answer 2

I like

#1  a women that takes care of herself.

#2. She actually enjoys having s*x.

#3. Not clingy and wanting to know what I do all the time.

#4 Great mom and wife at home.

Answer 3

FOOD

s*x

LOVE

GOOD HOME

LOYALTY

CARING

UNDERSTANDING WHEN HE ACTS LIKE BABY SOMETIMES

and just simple things of life,,,, every man is different. Some are very family boys, some are woman-izer boys. Depends which kind your man is. Also some men love family, some don't mind. If all those simple things you can do, there is no need to over-think but just take the step of success. go for it girl, it's not that bad,,, it sounds scary at first, but when you are in it, it is like a boat travelling through a wavy river. YOu just balance the boat and go forward calmly...!

Answer 4

What any normal woman would want in a husband= loyalty, good s*x, respect, etc...

Answer 5

I really believe that once a woman gets married she stops trying, at least that is exactly what my wife did.  My advise is do not get lazy once the ring is on, keep trying for him.  If you cooked for him before marriage keep doing it, if you have s*x with him regularly keep doing it.  It is not rocket science, if you kept yourself up for him keep doing that too.  Never get lazy and assume that your marriage will last forever because then you are doomed.  Remember one thing above all, if you don't do your job another woman will!

Answer 6

being honest with your feelings and good lover!

Answer 7

a wife who stops trying to control his actions and shape him into something he is not. happens all the time and yet strangely enough both parties do it on a sub conscious level where in the end they both are pushing each other away. Guys like a wife who is loving,understanding and in all seriousness is willing to go just that little bit further to make things better for everyone. s*x helps to!

Answer 8

The things any partner would need from another:

- Great company, great s*x, understanding, a sense of humour....and of course love and fidelity!  

Answer 9

There's an old saying about this question:

1.  A "hostess" in the living room

2.  A "cook" in the kitchen

3.  A "w***e" in the bedroom

I am only able to accommodate my husband with 2 out of the 3 !!!!!!; s***w those pots and pans. . . anyway !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 10

s*x.

Seriously, that is all that they really want.

Answer 11

i cant say about all da mens.. but da one lik me.. would appreciate...

the inner beauty.. the patience.... the anger...

but by your question you seemed troubled..??? mst of men like s*x