What do people mean when they ask 'Do you party'? Who parties after college? How do you 'party' as an adult?

Question

Mind you, I chat in Yahoo Chat, and in the adult section. I wonder if the men who ask that are trying to assess how easy I am, or something like that. But as an introvert, the question puzzles me. I just don't see how people in their 30s and up can party. Who has the time or energy? And personally, I'd feel a little self-conscious and not a little ridiculous 'partying' with college kids -- been there, done that, didn't particularly care for it the first time! Any advice would be appreciated. Cheers!

Answer 1

Well on weekends you go clubbing or out drinking with your friends.

Answer 2

Yeah, a lot of people continue to party after they graduate from college--if they never grow up!  If you are looking for an immature twit than I guess these guys would be the perfect ones to choose.  

It sounds to me, though, that you may be looking for someone a little bit more mature.  It might be time to turn in the "Adult Yahoo Chat" for a place where you can find men who have something on their mind besides getting drunk and s******g around.

Answer 3

You're right.  I'm a guy and they're trying to assess how easy you are.  They're hoping you say

"Yes I party!"

and they'll ask

"what are you like when you're drunk?"

and they'll hope you say

"a big s**t"

Answer 4

I think it means do you like hanging out with a lot of people getting drunk. People do that at many different ages, though you are right when you say a lot of people stop once they hit the higher digits...so i suppose they are asking if you still enjoy that (or going out to bars and clubs and stuff)