What do people who want to stay pure until marriage do with their boy/girlfriends?

Question

I don't mean what people can do to get around it, I mean what do people who are serious about it do with their partners?

Answer 1

If you're asking for a "safe way" to play touchy feely, then forget it. If you're old enough AND prepared to marry each other, then problem is solved. Otherwise, do not look for a way satisfy your urges TOGETHER...if you two are alone maybe you can, but afterwards, you still have to deal with mounting anxiety. Make a deal with each other to be more creative with your time/thoughts, like a hobby or something you could enjoy, which can at least distract those hormones. Lots O luck!

Answer 2

They Plan their futures

Answer 3

picknicks, movies, dinner.

as far as the issue , talk, learn to communicate and be honest, it will help as things progress

Answer 4

from what I know they do even worse stuff. I knew a girl that was not only disgusting in what she did, she was evil!

But she was a virgin.

Answer 5

i know someone who wouldnt even kiss till their wedding day. because they didnt want temptation. alot of times its just a lot of distraction... keep urself distracted. the other thing is that alot of times they really dont spend much time alone with the other person. or atleast not in a "compromising" place. like a basement with the lights off laying on a bed. you know what i mean. but yeah. its just alot of avoiding the temtation. and when u are tempted fighting it off or ignoring it.