What do these dreams about my brother mean?

Question

I have to give a little background first. I lost my closest sibling out of twelve brothers and sisters in 2003. He was 17 and I was 18. He took his own life. I've had two dreams about him since then... One three months after it happened where I was laying face down on a couch in a pitch black room with light shining down over me and he was kneeling next to the couch rubbing my back in a comforting way just back and forth. It frightened me out of my wits in the dream because I knew it was him. I didn't move...my face was pointed toward him and I could see his outline but no details just a black form...like it was meant to comfort but I was scared...badly.... The next dream was last year... I walked down the road to the spot where he did it and it was dark. Also a scary dream... I had almost reached the spot when I heard a monster in the bushes and freaked... I didn't move I just looked to the left and stared hard at the spot. I knew if I took another step it would leap out and kill me.

Answer 1

may be u are thinking a lot.............or

he wants u to listen to him..........4 smthing

Answer 2

It sounds like this dream is darker than the other one.

I think your brother had not yet reached peace with himself, and the dark creature was probably the demon of depression that led him to kill himself.

But he still wanted to let you know he is OK.  Have you told your family about these?  They may get some comfort from them - let them see my answers too.

I'm a bit of a Catholic at heart (due to Catholic school - ha ha) and I do believe that people who make bad mistakesbut are basically good may still get a chance to get into heaven, after some special work or sort of purgatory.

A very good friend of mine's Mom died - they are Jewish but he converted to Christianity but she did not.  He was worried about her and he had a super vivid dream where she came to him and said "I'm in heaven and it's great.  I had to be in h**l for 5 minutes, and it was bad but then it was over and I'm OK."  Very interesting, and my friend got a lot of comfort from it.  Best luck.  I believe all these dreams are true - read the book "To h**l and Back" it's by Lee Strobel and is by far the best book written on the subject - really fascinating.

Answer 3

I'm very sorry.

I guess you should take care for emotional and spiritual needs, even after 5 years. You seem to be still occupied by your brother.

Answer 4

I lost my father a few months backs to sudden brain cancer. I dream about him pretty offten. Most of the times he comes to me and gives me advice in some way or another. Ive only had 1 bad dream about him. Not even really bad but it was a dream about all the bad things we went through...fighting, argueing etc. Stuff you dont want to recall. When I had hat bad dream, I woke up scared, feeling like life sucked. I then had a rough patch of sleep till (what I want to believe) he came back and made it all right again. Loosing someone close is the worst. I try to believe that when my Dad comes to me in dreams, its a way of trying to make peace for all the unneccary static your two went through. when I see him and we do something like fishing together, I wake up so sad but i believe its his way of trying even after being gone. Makes me love him more then ever....and miss him more then ever. But my mom has not had one dream of my dad in the whole time and she is jelious that she hasnt had one dream. Good or bad, its your way of knowing you guys were alright.

Try to take away the best of what you got. Its not always nice, (luckely most of mine have been, but not all) But maybe ( cross fingures) it is his way of letting you know , he meant something to you.

When my grandma died, ( first person I was close to that died and i didnt know what to do) she came to me at times when I had done something wrong. Scared the living shiit out of me but after thinking long and hard, the message was to help me.

Brains are the most fcked up things ever. Be it bad , be it good, take some time and interupt the message that was givin to you. its a strange trip that most cant benifit from. Please think more. Loved ones who are missed can leave you in a whirl whind of emotions

Answer 5

you should go to a libary or screach google about that