What do u do if u have a bf and?

Question

he has **** some man but u love him and do not want to los him him just cuz of that what do u do

Answer 1

Ok that's a very personal question and you didn't include many details.  Did he cheat on you?  Do you consider that cheating?  Some people think if you sleep with a person of the same gender it isn't cheating.  Or is this something that happened years before he met you.

What is your view on homosexuality?  If he has done it in the past he will again.  Are you wanting him to give up men to be with you?  

Have you talked about this?  You want to make sure he is bisexual but willing to be exclusive with you.  In my opinion, cheating is cheating regardless of gender.  You don't want to be a trophy wife to cover up the fact that he is g*y.

However if your spiritual beliefs lead you to believe homosexuality is wrong, then this is not the man for you.  For he will always be bi and always look at other men and women.  Just realize it won't be a secret.