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What do u do when your dog died?

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My loving dog just died :( and now i cant stop crying what should i do?? please answer me!

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  1. Oh i am sooo sorry. But think of it this way: your dog had a happy life with you and dearly loved you.but now he is in a beautiful safe place where she runs free trough the forests chasing rabbits with her new friends. He swims in the sea and loves to have treat hunts every afternoon. He is now very happy. there is no pain and no sickness, no sadness - only joy! One day he will see you again and he will be even more happy. then you will run and swim and play and be happy together.

    you can get a new dog now.

    remember everything happens for a reason and All things work together for good

    You may not believe in God and in Heaven, but it's much better that thinking that your dog is gone forever isn't it?


  2. I put my energy into remembering the good times with my dog when she died.  But it's painful to lose a beloved dog.  Below are some websites for the Rainbow Bridge that has support for you and can help you heal.

    For me, getting another dog soon was best.  That works for some, but not for all people.

    My sympathy to you in your time of grief.  

    I hope the websites below bring you peace of heart and mind. -!-

  3. I know how you feel when my pet died I could not stop crying. I kept on remembering him and thinking I saw him. During the years your dog spent with you even if less than a year I am sure you loved your dog and have great memories of him/her. Remember He/she is in a better place. Two ways to Help you stop crying are to remember all the good times you had with your dog or keep your mind on other things. Maybe you can get a new Dog. Maybe you could talk to someone in  your family or one of your friends tell them why your sad and they will understand. If you haven't already buried your dog then you should bury it in your backyard. I know how you feel and I feel very bad for you. Whatever you do don't forget your dog.

    Sorry for your loss :(

  4. well i would be really upset

  5. hi im sorry for your loss i feel for you i realli know wat you are going through i lost my staffie 4 months ago she was attacked by 2 other staffies, it broke my heart im still grieving for her but it may not seem like it now but it does get easier here is a poem that someone sent me when i lost mi ebony x

    They say memories are golden. Well, maybe that is true. I never wanted memories I only wanted you. A million times I needed you, A million times I cried. If love alone could have saved you, You never would have died. In life I loved you dearly, In death I love you still. In my heart you hold a place No one could ever fill. If tears could build a stairway, And heartache make a lane. I'd walk the path to heaven, And bring you home again. Our family chain is broken, And nothing seems the same. But as God calls us one by one, The chain will link again: Leaving you a tribute  

  6. I am so so sorry about your dog, losing him is like losing a child.

    That you lost him so unexpectedly makes it even more terrible and you are right to be so distraught. Allow yourself to cry as it lets out emotions you need to release in order to begin to heal. Some have suggested looking into legal action against the veterinarian and that is something to consider but perhaps leave that for a while.

    Right now concentrate on yourself and staying safe and healthy. This is a very stressful event and you are vulnerable to becoming rundown and physically ill.

    When I lost my 15 year old Golden Retriever, one of the things that began the healing process for me was planning and conducting a memorial service for him. I gathered Sage which I burnt and placed his collar and a photo of him in my treasure box. I love the description of the dog in the book The Littlest Angel, by Paul Taswell which reads: "and at the bottom of the box lay a toothworn collar worn by a dog who died as he had lived, in absolute love and infinite devotion.

    I read that portion of the book at his service. I held the service at his favorite spot at the river he loved to splash in in his prime. I believe that is where his soul is now with all the other great dogs before him.

    I am certain that we will be with our dogs someday and I know you will heal with time because I have. In time if it is right for you, think about getting another great canine soul to love, this will help complete the healing for you as it did for me.Take care, I'll be thinking of you often.


  7. I am sorry your dog died.

    I stood by your bed last night, I came to have a peep.

    I could see that you were crying, you found it hard to sleep.

    I whined to you softly as you brushed away a tear,

    "It's me, I haven't left you, I'm well, I'm fine, I'm here."

    I was close to you at breakfast, I watched you pour the tea

    You were thinking of the many times your hands reached down to me.

    I was with you at my grave today, you tend it with such care.

    I want to re-assure you, that I'm not lying there.

    I walked with you towards the house as you fumbled for your key.

    I gently put my paw on you, I smiled and said, "It's me."

    You looked so very tired, and sank into a chair

    I tried so hard to let you know that I was standing there.

    It's possible for me to be so near you every day

    To say to you with certainty, "I never went away."

    You sat there very quietly, then smiled; I think you knew...

    In the stillness of that evening, I was very close to you.

    The day is over... I smile and watch you yawning

    And say "good-night, God bless, I'll see you in the morning."

    And when the time is right for you to cross the brief divide,

    I'll rush across to greet you and we'll stand, side by side.

    I have so many things to show you, there is so much for you to see.

    Be patient, live your journey out... then come home to be with me.

    ~Author Unknown~


  8. My old dog died to i cried but i got over it and i miss her but i will remember her for good things and not bad. i miss her and look at pictures but you should try to move on.  

  9. I'm very sorry for you Megan, it's a bad time..think about any good time you've spent together; it was your dog and nobody will replace it, but I'm sure it didn't feel happy when it saw you weren't; so think it's a bad time but this is life, a dog cannot live as long as a human, so we must be prepared to lose our dogs, and for this reason, until they're alive, we must make them feel well, and treat them like sons

  10. I cry and eventually the tear will slow down.  You just lost an important element in your life, you are going to grieve and it is normal, it okay.  There are also some wonderful sites on the internet that deal with pet grieving that I go to and you can talk with others that have lost their pet and can relate to what you are going through.  Here is a site that I have used: http://www.rainbowbridgepoems.com

  11. The best thing to do is keep crying.  There's nothing you can do, but losing a dog is like losing family.  I'm sorry for your loss.  You'll never completely get over it, but you shouldn't try to hold back your feelings by not crying.  But never try to forget her, because that's the worst thing that could happen.

  12. You have lost a very dear friend, and you are in the middle of the grieving process. So I suggest to just let yourself cry. Whether a human or an animal passes, many people try to push their tears away, but this is not too healthy.

    On June 25, one of my three beloved cats died. Grace was the mother of the other 2 cats. She was rescued from the streets of NYC, and a few days after her rescue she gave birth to 4 magnificent kittens.

    I cried a lot when Grace died. Soon I would think of her but without the tears. Then I noticed that at some times of the day, I would think about her, and at other times I would be thinking about something else. Eventually, I got to the point where I was "thinking about something else" more than I was thinking about Grace. I know this probably sounds strange to you, but noticing this ebb and flow of feelings was what helped me work through Grace's passing.

    Of course, I also talked about it to lots of people, until I got to the point where I just barely wanted to talk about it anymore. I also wrote to a lot of people  thru email. It sounds like a real cliche, but things really do get better with time.

    So sharing your feelings with others (including this YA question) can help you at this painful time. Right now, you are just in the middle of grieving. So let yourself grieve and let yourself cry. You won't feel like this now, but the tears are cleansing you.

    Although I have babbled on quite a bit, let me just say that I know, more or less, what you are going through. I am sorry for your loss. I wish you all the best.

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