I recently started having an affair with my ex boyfriend who has been married for less then six months to the mother of his child. I did stay away from him for at least four months to give him a chance to make his marriage work, but he pursued me until I finally gave in and we started our affair almost one month ago,Anyway he and his wife do not live together, because they do not have enough money to get a place together, and she doesn't let him see the child when he asks her to, they are always fighting physically and verbally, He spends more time with me then his wife weather it be on the phone or in person if he or I am not working, and he constantly tells me that I am the one he is in love with and that I make him happy because I didn't/donot treat him like he is a boy and that the way I allow him to express himself and talk to me is something his wife doesn't let him do. He said that he thought marrying her was the right thing to do, because his family (who is very religous) was telling him that it was, and that he wanted his child to have both her parents in her life (which he didn't have) but he realized that it was pointless because he doesn't love her the way a husband should love his wife.Now I must admit one of the reasons I gave in and started this affair with him is to get back at his wife, because when he and I were together she was constantly pursuing him and using their child to win him back, and I got tired of going through the drama and ended the relationship and sadly let her win, so I feel no remorse for stepping back in and reclaiming him. However my mother feels that I am wrong for this, is there anyone else that think I am wrong for doing this or is there anyone that can relate to my situation? And for the record I am a single Mother so plz I donot need anyone calling me a homewrecker, because I feel its worser for the child if their parents stay together and be miserable, then to seperate and still have both parents be a part of the childs life.
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