What do u think about my life. I am 20 i live with my parents no girlfriend no car starting college no job?

Question

i graduated from highschool no criminal record. i plan to marry when iam 26 i am indian so my parents will find me a girl thats why i dont have a gf. as for the car i dont need it i get to go anywhere i want using my paents car and it saves me money. it also doesnt make any sense to move out, however we own a gas station which i go to sometimes. my college is paid for. So i was thinking just dont do nothing until my college starts then i will become a doctor and everything will be fine. What do u think of my plan is it full proof or lame *** looser

Answer 1

Regardless of what I think of your life, it is quite apparent to me that you are unsure about it, that is why you are asking the question in the first instance. Perhaps ask yourself, what do YOU think of your life? Are you happy with it? Do you think that the path you are on will lead you to happiness? Try to separate yourself from your parents (even just for a few minutes) and ask yourself is this really what I want, what would make me happy?

Answer 2

You might think im crazy but im jealous of your life...

lol doctor is sooo cool.. virginity makes you,yourself even cooler...

do you know loads of people are ruin by their own life started when they take a first wrong step by following ones heart when the mind said that its a wrong thing to do...Listen to your mind would you...your parents been trying hard that they are soo proud for having such a son with a high ambition to live...

Do you actually kno what is a looser like ? Sure thing is its not you...

Live on your normal life...theres a lot of good things you can do that would make you even more satisfied than just haviing s*x....

Dont be closed minded...YOu dont wanna upset your parents dont you.

s*x is nothing...why dont you use the time you have by doing something that benefits rather than just something that waste time...

Well you can always have *** after when your married.Trust me,theres no such thing of a happy true wife when they know their husband had *** with some online *** partner even when he's a doctor.

Would you rather lose your pride and high standing for who you truly is to an online s*x partner ?

Your a lame guy if you had s*x before marriage.But if you can still stay virgin till 26,sometimes better things in life would come to you that when a pure heart girl who loves you the way you are is ready to be your wife.

Trust me,if there were that kind of woman who comes in your life,you will never regret of not having s*x before marriage...

Nothing comes easily...Nothing in life will make you the happiest everyday.There will be a day when you will cry but in the same time,joyful of life would come to you...

Theres sad but a long live happiness...hardwork that gives u satisfication...

But would you go for happy then sadness wont heal...for  all your life you planned for a brighter future..think for the best of your life..

Be a wise man who makes wise decision..Be tough and never let your guilt down...

Be who you truly are for a happier being of you...

Answer 3

you really should move out...no girl likes to date men who live with their parents. I understand that since you're indian you feel you don't need a gf (actually, I'm half) but you should marry for LOVE....nothing else.

Answer 4

I think you have it really together. Thank God that you are from a traditional culture (American culture is messed up.)and have good family ties. You are truly blessed. Don't listen to all the dysfunctional voices in the American culture. (that you should move out & live alone; that you should have a car, etc.  Having to pay rent or mortgage, paying a car payment, this would all destroy your financial ability to go to college and pursue the long-term goal of becoming a doctor) You've got it together. You're doing great. You could earn some additional money and save it while you're waiting to start college.

(I am an American, born here, but I think our American culture is messed up and many of the ideas circulating in our popular culture are unworkable.)