What do u think about this complaint about women? g*y here! Please don't shoot the messenger!?

Question

I am g*y so I haven't dealt with women in the whole dating department but I always thought in the str8 world, it was more often the guy's problem. Just because of how most women come off so sweet and ncie. Take here on yahoo answers for example; you get all these sweet compassionate answers from women. But a guy who answered my question coincidentally touched upon that very opinion I had of women being so sweet and nice and I learned things I never learned before. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhULC7j4NB2..IhOTs3mcR3ty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080705153758AAE4jPQ Wow! Women, is this true? I was always on your side. I am ashamed lol

Answer 1

no way! I am sure there are some women out there who get pleasure in it, usually if they feel bad about themselves and need others to make them feel better or if a man has hurt them in the past (especially a dad or father figure when they were young) they might take it out on all guys. Another thing is women get hit on all the time. Honestly, sometimes it gets boring. You hear the same lines again and it is more interesting to m********e than s***w a guy who passes out after a few minutes. But seriously, guys are jerks just as often as women are. I'm sure you've had your share of guy teases or aholes. I'd say judge each case individually before taking anyone's side.

Answer 2

That guy's answer is a little over the top, but there is some truth to it. There are a lot of women who act like that .... most women like attention and like the feeling of turning people down and being "too good" for most guys. I'm a guy and have even tried doing the same to women once or twice just to see what it's like ... and it does boost the ego and give you a little thrill, but women don't take it as well as the average man and can get quite nasty whereas most men move along quietly.

Other women like to flirt, get guys interested then drag it all out to see how long the guy will put up with stuff.

Personally I'm over all that stuff now, if I like someone I am honest about it and if they are into playing games then I lose interest pretty fast. Unfortunately, doesn't stop the majority of women acting like that.

Answer 3

hey to be honest I am no where like that...I hate the idea of being a tease but some girls like the torture. But then at the same time I want to wait till I get married so if I come off as a tease I am so sorry.....And He is right men are weak for a girls treasures.....and don't be ashamed cause not all women are like that...................hint, hint, he got his heart broken...

Answer 4

Um, you shouldn't make it so hard for us to figure out what you're asking!  Making us go and look at a previous question,  after reading the 100 word question first!!!!

So Why does it have to be the man who asks the woman out?

Why do women give guys nasty answers, when he asks her out?

Is that it?

It's still very much a man's world.  It shouldn't be.  Women are objectified.  It's OK for men to have wrinkles - or that rugged look.  Women are expected to shave their legs, but men aren't.  Women are expected to act ladylike - yuk.

Nature's purpose in having men and women is for reproduction.  But advertisers use women to sell products.  Hairy legged, rugged women are just as likely to be fertile as other women and just as likely to get a PhD degree.

Women have learned from experience that most guys don't like women asking them out.  Women are bitter at being 2nd class citizens even although it's the 21st century.  So they sometimes say mean things to guys they don't know.

Answer 5

That guy who answered that question clearly douses himeself with a gallon of FARENHEIT cologne, poses and does crotch dancing manuevers in his filthy full length mirror as squeezes his skinny *** into his JORDACHE jeans and shiny, polyester button up shirt. Before his limo comes to take him to the club (he can't afford one.....but doesn't have a car and the rent money will pay for it) he greases his hair so thick you would need a gps directional satellite system to find out his real hair color (which of course is dyed black). WAIT I AM NOT DONE! He then goes out to the skankiest club he can find simply because they play salsa music and he fancies himself a bullfighter or Ricky Ricardo in another life, but this is the next best thing. When he hits on the type of women that go there he is just shocked that they are there to get his money, which he doesn't have......nor do they....because as they were getting ready to come out they put so much body glitter on, you would swear in blacklight that Haley's comet came around for another spin.

Answer 6

You can't take one guys opinion as God's honest truth. Yes, much of what he said was/is true but and this is a big but, it doesn't go for all women all the time. Everyone, whether you are a man or woman has the capability to be cruel, manipulative, conniving,vindictive and down right rude. For some people this is their personality all the time, for others these traits are only random instances on bad days.

At our best, women are compassionate, empathetic, caring and giving but if you can't accept someone for the worst qualities they posses then you don't deserve them at their best.

You can't let a negative opinion or encounter ruin your outlook on life and humanity.

Humanity is like the ocean. One drop of dirt does not make the entire ocean dirty, just as a negative trait does not mean you should forsake humanity or in this case women.

Each individual should be judged as just that, an individual.