What do u think bout a 13 yr old girl, wanting 2 lose her virginity to a boy she met at teen nite in a club??

Question

lose virginity

Answer 1

I'm going to guess that this 13 yo girl is thinking about doing this not because she has strong feelings of love for this guy or is emotionally ready to do this but to impress and make this boy like her

Teenagers are so dumb now a days, they are having s*x for all the wrong reasons

Answer 2

That she is a child that really just thinks that she knows what she wants and will one day (if even if it's not too far into the future...like that night or the next day!) will regret it.

I hope she thinks more about it and changes her mind.

Answer 3

too young.  how will said girl feel when she sees him afterward and he acts like she doesn't even exist.  s*x does not = love.  that's a lesson many young girls don't understand.

Answer 4

What do you think of a 13 year old getting pregnant and having to face the world as a young mother?  Does that seem like it's worth the 5 minutes of s*x?

Answer 5

Here is some advice:

If you're thinking of doing it, there's no way to stop you from doing what you want to. Although a lot of people will say that 13 is too young and for you to wait at least 2 more years or more, if you do go for it, make sure you are protected, meaning that the guy has protection and a condom.

Before you do so, though, I will tell you of a friend who lost her virginity at 13. This is a true story. Although, she was dating an older guy, and wanted to please him, she felt she wasn't ready for it, but did it because she thought it would please him.

What happened afterwards was the following: as they were "doing it" her aunt came in, and then wouldn't talk to her since. For a long time, she believed she was a "s**t" because others judged her for having s*x at 13, even though she had s*x only once with a guy. Also she had a negative association with s*x.

Also, a word of caution: because you are in middle school, the girls who do "have s*x" are labeled as "s***s." I know it's not fair, but the boys who do take advantage of you, naturally brag about it, and then "word goes around," and because it's a new phenomenon of having s*x, and most girls aren't, you are seen as a s**t, and the guy of course is seen as a "player."

Although it is not fair, and I know it's not, you have to see the reality of the situation.

If you still do decide to do it, I would recommend being in a relationship, where you and the guy have a trust between each other, and then you can have s*x if you wish to, without your reputation being "ruined," although you must be certain that the guy is trustworthy and sees you more than an object to stick his p***s in. This is vital.

I would highly recommend posting another question such as: "Any girls who lost their virginity at 13, please tell me of your experiences and how it shaped and affected your life..."

This might be more helpful, for you will get a true account of girls who lost their virginity at 13, and truthfully how it impacted their life. You will benefit from this information.

Above All:

Be Safe and Good Luck!

Maksim.

Answer 6

no ... way too young !!

Answer 7

Stories like this just make me very sad.  This girl has no idea of what life is about.  Can anyone out there remember when a 13 yr old was still a child?  Where are her parents?  I can see her getting pregnant or contacting some disease.  How about the poor guy?  Is he really ready for fatherhood.  Boy oh boy!  Those few minutes of pleasure can cripple you for life.

Answer 8

WOW! that is probably BAD!

she will regret it later

wait this is probably u

Answer 9

well, my first thought is why is a 13 yr old girl going to a teen night club? where are the parents?!

Answer 10

SHE IS SERIOUSLY OUT OF HER MIND!!!!! BIG TIME!

Answer 11

No, that's way too young! If this boy is nice, he'll wait till you're both ready.

Answer 12

that is crazy, i know there is a lot of pressure out there but 13 is way too young, and those teen clubs arent that decent so i can see why im 26 now and when i was young i went there and the way kids dance with one another is already s*x with your clothes, dont do anything you will regret trust me its worth waiting til your in love and ready not just some random guy.

Answer 13

I think she's got a long, hard life ahead of her.  She needs to finish being a kid before she tries being an adult, because once you leave childhood, there's no looking back.

Answer 14

please don't because no matter what he says he doesn't love you and it will change you you'll always regret it even if you think it won't

Answer 15

I think she should wait until she is more mature and grown up. 13 is still very young. You'd regret it; wait until you've known a guy for a while and really trust him. Don't just do it because you met him once and thought he was cute. That would be a huge mistake.

Answer 16

Sure! And do it in the dumpster behind the club to make it more memorable!

Wait about 4 years.

Answer 17

horrible idea.

probably get an std..

or a baby.

Answer 18

I was 18 when I lost my virginity.  I can tell you, knowing what I know now, even that was too young.  The guy was not special to me.  I was just kind of tired of being, "The good girl."  Stupid huh?  He was not the only person I had s*x with either.  Some times it was very nice, and sometimes it was rather pointless.  But it never really made me feel special and beautiful.  When I met my husband, WOW!  Even before the s*x he made me feel beautiful and important, and smart.  I knew on our first date that I wanted to marry this man.  And lemme tell ya, I had no idea how wonderful s*x could be until I shared it with the man I am spending the rest of my life with.  I wish he had been my first everything....my first kiss, my first hand holding.......everything.  

If you do choose to have s*x, use protection.  But I really hope you decide to wait.  It will feel better in the long run.  You can't really love and respect someone esle unless you learn to love and respect yourself.

Answer 19

I think it's a shame that she doesn't value herself more. She shouldn't even be thinking such things.

Answer 20

i think that she should really think it over and not do anything that she would regret. 13 to me is to young i believe s*x should be saved for marraige. but ultimately it is her choice and i think she should choose wisely.

Answer 21

that is very dumb, what will u do the baby?

you'll never get your self-respect back

Answer 22

I just hope you aren't that teen girl. To be honest, it's her life and her body, but I can tell you I certainly wouldn't do that with mine, specially at 13! What happened to learning how to control your urges, anyone? It's something to feel attraction for someone, and something else altogether to act upon it in a rash way.

Just my opinion.