What do u think is going on?

Question

This guy i use to date ( we only went out once)friend and i have been talking... We talk about everything and but i like him as a friende.. So recently he asked me to come with him to a carnvail... Then he changes his mind and was like do you want to go to the beach with me and Matt. Matt is my ex and I really don't know if that would be cool

Answer 1

just tell him that you would like to go but don't feel comfortable w/ your ex there. otherwise just tell him flat out how you feel.

Answer 2

i think thats def fine if u only went out once with matt he cant get that mad ...also u guys are going as friends- its not like its a date and then matt shows up unknowingly- if the guys are cool since they are friends nothing here is on u- do whats gunna make u happy

Answer 3

I would just tell him that you are not comfortable in going and ask if you can either hang out another time or go somewhere else. If he is your friend he will respect that.

Answer 4

be cool about it.

just tell him you want to go somewhere else.

better yet tell him how you feel..

he's your friend right?

Answer 5

well if matt is bringing another girl then i think that would be cool.

recentally i brought my boyfriend to my ex bf (of a year) sisters birthday parttyy. it turned out fine. i thought it wouldnt be cool of me eathier. but it was all good.

i think that would be okay:)

Answer 6

  That doesn't sound too cool.  I think you should find a reason not to go.  I'm not sure if I would trust that situation plus it could be extremely uncomfortable and that wouldn't be much fun.  

  Another way to handle it would be to take another girl friend with you to even out the numbers.  Good luck..

Answer 7

Let me see if I have this straight:

You dated this guy (also your friend) only once.

You like him as a friend and you talk about everything with him.

He has invited you to go with him to a carnival, then changes his mind and ask you to go to the beach with him and your ex, Matt.

What's going on?  If I have the above straight, the following are possibilities:

1. Either Matt is using your friend to try to get back together with you, so he conned him into arranging for the three of you to get together, friend leaves early, and Matt has you to himself.  Or...

2. Your friend wants to spend time with you, but not as a twosome because the last "date" was uncomfortable for him, so he's including a third person (three's a crowd", not knowing that Matt is your ex.  Or...

3. Your friend thinks you want more than friendship with him, and he's hoping that if he can get you back together with your ex, you'll be content to just be friends.

4. Neither guy has any motives....it's just all coincidence.  And if you don't think it's cool, just tell your friend so and don't go.  It wouldn't hurt to cultivate other friendships, too, and hang out with them more.