What do we do lol?????

Question

Im 16, and a Junior. And my gf is 14 and a freshman.

I try to be a good guy and am not like most guys. And well neways, to the question..

She talked to her mom about us doing sumthing next weekend, and she said that we couldnt do anything except hang out at her house, or walk around. So.. i guess what im trying to say is, what can we do to let her mom give us more freedom with this heh.

I completely understand where shes going with the whole guys with cars thing, and im not gonna try and sneak anything by her, just wanna know if theres anyway we can get more freedom on this?

- Started dating lastnight, her moms never met me either, so idk.

I get nervous on these kind of things.

Answer 1

YOU SHOULD LISTEN TO HER MOM YO FOOL! YOULL BE IN MORE GOOD RELANSHIP IF YOU BOTH LISTEN TO MOM! and then when mom feels realy really comfortable, theres gona be trust in the air and you can do whatever you want in the mean time just listen to mmomy and youll be good!

patience is the key to a good relanship!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LISTEN TO MOM!

Answer 2

Meet her mum, and make sure to explain where you're going, instead of just having her tell her mum that you're hanging out.

Be polite, make her parents trust you, etc.

Answer 3

To get her to give you more freedom it will take time show her that you are a nice kind gental men and yes it may take a while but isnt she worth it.??!!

Answer 4

wow! you sure don't like to waste time do you!!! LOL.

seriously though.... you might wanna wait a little bit.... a few weeks at least. otherwise she may think you're planning to have s*x with her daughter then dump her the next day and be onto the next one.

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Answer 5

Ok, this sounds the opposite of what happened to me im a freshman also and dated a 16 yr old my parents didnt noe at first. They gave us more freedom once he sat down for a night and had a chat with them just about like who he is and c**p n that made them trust him. :) My suggestion is dont go around the parents cuz they Will find out and they wont approve and nvr let u guys do ne thing again.

so just when you see or meet them say something like How are you guys doing today. Or something polite:)

Answer 6

I would wait till you get a little older and the freedom will come naturally...Or get an older girlfriend right now and have all your dreams come true!

Answer 7

Key is, to be the mom's friend. Talk to her, make her more comfortable around you, if she can trust you, then the fun of being off leash will come.

*Something like that happened to me once. I started dating this guy, and well, one of his mom's friends saw us my boyfriend and I out side in the dark. (We where just talking, waiting for his friend,...but that's not how they saw it!) They thought that we where making out. They told his mom, and just like that she began to hate me. I had to make her  like me to some extent so i could at least see my boyfriend! So, I called her up one day, and she answered it, she sounded tired or sick. So I started talking to her, you know, Aw, are you sick? Are you okay? something simple, it made me look like a cared. Oh, and there was this one time, my boyfriend was sick with the flu, and I collected all of his homework from his classes and walked to his house. His mom was so grateful for that, she let me go and started to be live that I was a better person.

So i have somewhat experience in This subject.If you talk to her mom, do things fo her, and be nice,...she'll see a better person.

Answer 8

my parents are like that im dating a senior and im a sophmore and i wasnt allowed to ride with him until they met him.... hopefully they give you more freedom eventually. i just takes time.. dont rush anything you jsut started dating and do anything to make her parents happy.. it helps in the long run... trust me on that one.  

Answer 9

First of all, 14 is too young to date IMHO.  Go get yourself an 18 year old ;)

Answer 10

Obviously her mom isn't going to trust you if you JUST met. Go to her house, present yourself as you are (not being yourself will just make her hate you) and hope for the best. I'm assuming you know how to use manners: Opening doors for girls, respecting their parents and them and using polite words? All that stuff. If you want her trust, gain it. If you don't have the patience, you're being the same as most guys. Take it slow, you'll gain the girl's trust and the mothers. Don't rush anything is my advice.  

Answer 11

Go out to dinner at a family style restaurant with another couple or two, for a few hours.  Have icecream sundaes for desert.  Let her parents drop you off and pick you up afterwards.  

After awhile, her parents will trust you more and more and you can add things like going to the movies or to a concert and your dates will become longer.

Answer 12

of course she's not going to let you have freedom if she hasn't even met you yet. what you need to do is go to her house meet her mom chat with her mom let her get to know you.. let her mom know that your a good guy with good intentions and after that she'll start letting you have more freedom. don't try to rush to things and wanna go out out out. just chill out and conversate with mom maybe yall can all have dinner together. but good luck

Answer 13

SInce you guys just started dating, I guess she's justified in being a little bit protective. I would get acquianted with the mother and get on her good side. Go to their house for dinner or invite them to your house for dinner. If she gets to know you and you get to know her, you both will understand each other better when compromising and establishing rules.

At your age, my boyfriend was older than me and my parents' big rules were 1) no going to his house, and 2) no riding the car w/ him as a driver. We could still do things like bowling, going to the mall and stuff but we just needed a ride from a parent. It wasn't too bad.  

Answer 14

Nothing short of TIME is going to convince this girl's mother that you can be trusted.  (And even then it'll never be 100% complete, sorry to tell you this )  Most any mother would feel this way - especially  about a new guy in her daughter's life so it isn't anything personal against you.

Good Luck!