What do we do with my brother?

Question

My 12 year old brother has really become a yob of such, he has such a temper on him, he shouts whenever he doesn't get anything or any money, his female friend of 16 is such a bad influence on him, she basically tells him what to wear and what to buy, anyway i am 19 and my mum just recently divorced my brothers father (my step father), he swears at any given time, he beats my 10 year old brother for no reason and when he annoyed by his friend's he takes it out on my mum. Whenever i shout at him he threatens to get his father (which he has done before). His father is such a nasty person, he always hated me because i stuck up for myself and my mum. Someone please help we have tried every trick in the book but nothing works anymore, i just let him shout because I don't want to waste my breath on him anymore. My mum is slowly giving up hope too.

Answer 1

turn him over your knee and bust his behind.

Answer 2

call a child agency like CIA or something.

put your brother in the agency's care,

they can find him a group home or foster home.

if you live in ontario, youthdale has a bunch of group homes and programs for kids who seem to be like your brother.

yes he would HATE it because its a strict place, but they may be able to knock some sense into him.

good luck

Answer 3

BOOT CAMP! This boy needs to learn some respect and it sounds a bit late for your mom...

I wish my parents had sent my brother to boot camp (I'm sure they wish they had too...)

Answer 4

mental institution???? no but really. the kid has probably gone through a lot..... maybe family differences have n a way to cause him to act this way. he might need to go to therapy. he needs to let his feelings out on something else. so, if he is starting to get violent.... maybe your mom should enroll him in a wrestling, boxing, etc class of some sort. it is better he let his violent feelings out this way. he is probably stressed out, also.

If the girl is a bad influence... KEEP HER AWAY!

Answer 5

Ur bro is only gonna get worse if he's like this and he's 12!!!!! don't let him in da streets, ground him. Don't take the easy way and cart him of to some child agency!!!! u be his disciplinarian if ur mum or step da won't be. I don't mean beat him or hit him. U be the one he can look up too. He might act hard and tough but don't forget he's twelve and ur 19!!!! don't give up hope on him yet. If u let him carry on this way he'll only blame u when he's 19 and made a complete balls of his life. and u'll be left wondering what if........ give him a reality check. I don't no u or him...so i don't know what that is ....only u and  ur mum do.

Good luck x*x