I have 3 children and my husband has two. I am not at all saying that my children are perfect, but I was a single mom for a long time so my children have pretty much been used to cleaning their own room , doing a few chores, etc. My husbands 2 children on the other hand, are really rebellious and have such an attitude. All through the summer, the 14 year old daughter had so many clothes bought for her on so many different occassions. (she stays with us every other week). But she is telling my husband she has no clothes when I and his mother know this to not be true. But she tries to get him to feel sorry for her. She does not want to abide by our rules, neither of them do, they don't want to do any chores, have any respect for me at all. The girl over eats dramatically and she is very much obese and even the doctor told her she was lazy and for health reasons needed to push herself away from the table. She sees it as though I pick at her, when I am trying to look out for her health when I tell her no more servings of food tonight. She will tell me one thing and when I go to my husband she will say that I am lying. When he makes rules the kids will come to me and fuss at me as if I made the rule when I didn't. Both of them are very disrespectful.And his son has a habit of telling everyone that they are a fagget. My husband just text me and told me that his son got my 8 year old daughter on the ground and was hitting her. He is 10. I have had enough and I do not know what to do. I really feel like at times my husband babies them. I know I am fed up with those kids and I have tried for 2 years to be there for them and help them in the many times that their mother has abandoned them due to drugs, prostitution, etc. But she always comes back the judge always allows her to take them and they defend her and even mistreat my husband. He is a very good man. No drugs, works hard to give us all what we need, takes us on family trips etc. He is also soft and he lets them get the best of him and even feels bad for punishing them. But they need it. I do not want to spank them but at the same time I do. His daughter is always putting his ex - wife (not her mother) in the middle of us. We change our number and she will give it out, or sneaks to call her. They were not together a year and the ex is VERY manipulating. I am at whitts end. My children love my husband and never treat him this way and are so glad to have him in their life. They on the other hand, their own father treat him as nothing more than a money bag. And they have no disrespect at all for me and no respect for our rules, always threatening to move out.
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