What do women think about men who...?

Question

I am just wondering what women would think about a "man" as my self who is a crossdresser. Or if you had a guy friend like this, what would your behavior towards them be, if the guy enjoyed wearing lingerie, skirts, wearing makeup, crying during movies, and loves shopping and even gossip.

Would you treat the guy like one of your girlfriend? if so is this based on behavior that is more feminine or what. Or would you ignore the behavior, think of him as one of your guy friends.

Answer 1

I wouldn't care. It's his choice. Except for the gossip part, he could be a good friend.

Answer 2

Ummm... I would not choose such a person to be friends with.

It would be painfully boring for me.  I really can't imagine talking about make-up and lingerie and shopping.  I would sooner rip my hair out by the roots in order to feel something - ANYTHING.

Answer 3

I would say.." you better work it girl"..words from Rupaul

"How U Doin''...words from Wendy Williams

2 cross dressers

Answer 4

I would accept it, of course.  I try to respect people for who they are and not for what society dictates they "should" be.  If we were friends it really would make no difference to me...I would love you the same.

Answer 5

ballsy

Answer 6

I am not a woman whose answer you would like to know, but a crossdresser myself for many years. My experience is that women are much more understanding and tolerasnt about crossdressing than our male fellows. Yet women who are comfortable with it are still a minority, but it seems an increasing one.

A potential girlfriend may just be curious, and when she is dealing with the inner feminine side of her mate, trying to get more information and understanding, she may discover she can have both, the man she has first dated, and a new girlfriend in addition, somebody who is genetically male but much closer to women´s needs and values.

Those women will love it to be richer than a "normal" gal in a "normal" relationship. They are sharing a lot of girlish fun and activities (shopping, going out together, role play at home and in the bedroom etc.).  My wife is very supporting.  But my experience (from many discussions with wives and partners) is also that many women are scared they could lose the man, being always suspicious there could be more than just crossdressing (means: hormones and surgery).

I wish you good luck.

Answer 7

2 words honey..

Carson Kressler...

I know he doesnt cross dress...( or ive never seen him do it)

but I so love him...i think we would get along great! Watching his show " How to look good naked" makes me feel al warm and fuzzy..in a non sexual way..of course..lol.

So yeah...I think me and a guy that cross dresses would get along great too.

Answer 8

Look, I have two friends who're female impersonators (one of which is starting to live his life as a woman) and I don't make him feel any less of a person in doing so. That's his business, he treats me with respect, and I do the same for him. It's really up to you to do (or be) what ever and who ever you want to be. I personally don't have a problem with it.  

Answer 9

major turn off sorry

Answer 10

It depends on how he sees himself.  If he's just a cross dressing dude, then I'm treating him like a man.  If he wants to live as a woman, then I'd respect that.  

"Or if you had a guy friend like this, what would your behavior towards them be, if the guy enjoyed wearing lingerie, skirts, wearing makeup, crying during movies, and loves shopping and even gossip."

Well, if I had a female friend who's major interests included "crying during movies, gossiping and shopping", I wouldn't be friends with them period (unless, of course, they were sneaker shopping).  You probably shouldn't assume that all women are into this kind of stuff.  

Answer 11

they would be jealous of you.