What do you do about dancing with guys at a school dance? (read more)?

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What do you do about dancing with guys at a school dance?

My friend is a bit popular with the boys, but she isn't allowed to date until she's 18 and in college. Sucks, right? However, her parents never said that she couldn't dance with boys at school dances and such. Like I said before, she's a bit popular with the boys, but she's neutral to most - if not all - of them.

So what does she do when 1+ guys ask her to dance? Does she dance with all of them, or would that seem like she's a tramp? Does she dance with a select few (or only one), or would that hurt the feelings of the other guys? Or does she dance with no boys and not get an entire dance with a boy the whole three years in middle school?

Sadly, I can't help her with this, since I, like her, am not allowed to date until I'm in my late teen years, AKA 17.

Gracias! :)

Answer 1

You're only in HS once. Tell her to dance with who ever she feels like. It doesn't make you a s**t.

Answer 2

dance honey dance,enjoy dancing if that is all you have on your mind.

Answer 3

Do you have any idea how hard it is for a guy to ask a girl to dance? Hard, hard, hard! Dance with them all! Be the bigger person! Who cares if you will be teased for dancing with someone who is not "popular"........what is "popular" anyway. "Popular", in my opinion, is just an opinion. It really means nothing.

Answer 4

if she wants to stay popular she should dance with everone that don,t make her a tramp you should never hurt people feeling and it may be there frist dance to,

Answer 5

She should dance with whoever she likes, and if that's everyone, so be it. However, if she's going to dance with multiple guys, she should keep it classy, and not grind or freak - those kinds of dancing will give her a bad reputation. However, the two of you should learn the basics of, say, swing and waltz, which are two very simple dances that you can teach a guy well enough in the first 30 seconds of a slow song that you can look amazing on the dance floor.