What do you do about older sisters who insult and fight with you?

Question

I have an older sister and a younger brother.

My younger brother is usually pretty easy to get along with, if you play with him and if you know what he likes.

But with my older sister, we fight, and she always says something mean about me and then she digs her nails in me.

What should I do about this?

Answer 1

hey....this thing is called sibling fights...!!

lol.....try and get over with it...i know...it hurts and all, but try to do whatever she does to you...so that she feels how bad it is when you 'dig ur nails into someone'......and if its REALLY bothering you furthur....then talk it out seriously with her or maybe even ur parents...telling 'em that its bothering you!!!

howveer....this matter is not sooo adverse that you would have a tough time dealing with it....just avaiod her when her mood's bad etc....or when you feel she would fight with you..!!! it will all calm down as you guys grow up..!!

Answer 2

get her back... hide her favourite stuff ... put her hand in a bowl of warm water when shes sleeping she will pee the bed. its all normal I was the youngest and learnt to take revenge  LOL U will laugh about it as adults  but just dont do stuff that might be really harmful to her self esteem or health..LOL  

Answer 3

That is just how sibling relationships are. The older sibling typically picks on the younger ones. Its a force of habit. I have an older brother and a younger sister. I am nice to my sister since she is 8 years younger than me, but my brother is only 3 years older so we fight. Its not only sisters that do that.

I grew up being with my brother and a lot of boys so I learned how to fight against them because I was a "girly" tom-boy. No matter what gender you are you will always end up fighting with one of your siblings. You'll grow out of it at some point, but its useless to try stopping. Just remember it will end as you two mature.

Answer 4

It is very common for sisters to fight & who ever is the oldest in the family it too is normal for them to pick on their younger sibling. I'm not saying it's right, that's just how it is. This will change more for the better the older you get & you'll start getting along better, less fighting but there will always be an occasional flare up once & awhile.  

Answer 5

You might just need to get over it.  That's exactly how my older sister was too.  We used to get into huge nasty fights.  So my best suggestion is just don't take a tennis racket to the bathroom door while you're fighting cause your pops will be really pissed.