What do you do at a bar mitzvah?

Question

My friends having a bar mitzvah. I was wondering what you do there and what should i give him? Money? and how much? and sorry i dont no this cuz im not jewish.

Answer 1

Since you are not jewish, please feel free to drink up all of their booze and hit on the older girls.  They will greatly appreciate a nice gentile boy like you.

Answer 2

normally, they have a service in the morning, which has the religious aspect. (all my friends had theirs at like 10 ish in the morning at their temple). then, in the evening there's a party. they normally hold it in a rented venue and there there's a DJ, games, food, and just basically having a good time. for gifts, most ppl give the person money, and how much depends on ur budget and i guess how close of a friend they are. maybe like $20-50? and my friend told me that multiples of 18 are considered good luck but it doesn't rlly matter. have fun! :)