What do you do at a college party if you suck at dancing and don't drink?

Question

Kind of curious because I haven't been to one yet and don't want to look like an idiot. The only thing I know how to do is grind with girls but I'm not allowed to do that anymore because me and my girlfriend agreed that we wouldn't do it with other people.

Answer 1

Thats easy, have some drinks tell jokes , do impressions be a goof. Everyone loves to be the life of the party. Or get car keys offer to drive folks home. Make sandwiches or refill drinks, do back massages all these things make for a popular guy at the party

Answer 2

Make sure you do have some sort of drink in your hand, it makes you feel less singled-out while everyone else is drinking and it provides good company if you run into any award silences.  Socialize!  You don't need to be the one telling the story to socialize, just laugh at funny moments and if you have a witty remark say it.  Most people at parties are drunk enough that you don't have to be paranoid about what other people think of you, they probably won't remember any minor details.  Also if your first party experience didn't go as well as planned, don't let it discourage you from going to more, you will end up seeing some of the same people and they will see you and recognize you at other events too, it'll become more comfortable to talk to them.  Have fun!

Answer 3

Hahaha! XD Well... you could sit and hang out with your friends, talking about something... I don't know! It all depends of what you like to do... I know that you can answer this by yourself. Just act normal, the way you are.

And if you're not sure about how to act... Just don't go! xD

Bye... Good luck :D

Answer 4

I think its obvious that you should either not go, or if you are invited to one ask your gf if she wants to go so you can talk with her there, or even try and mingle with other people. Don't have to accept the beer, could bring a moutain dew or something and sip on it all night but don't put it down anywhere, as date rape is still pretty high in colleges these days and that does include happening to guys too. So just be safe, watchful, chat up the gf, if things get too boring or too tense with people wanting you to drink you could always say you are the designated driver for your gf and she is ready to go home. But make sure you work out that plan ahead of time with the gf if she goes with you.

Answer 5

make out with your girlfriend  

Answer 6

I would invest in some dancing lessons.

Answer 7

Before i start let me just say some of these answers are idiotic and you guys obviously aren't in college. No one cares if you dont have a drink in ur hand. And if they give u **** about it forget them. This is ur decision, be yourself.

To be honest, once i decided not to drink at a party and i realized how depressing it was b/c everyone was so stupid.

But it can be done. Just mingle, talk, laugh, make fun jokes.

BUT KEEP IN MIND that the majority of people you're talking with are intoxicated and can become quite annoying or are completely at a different extreme.

No matter what, don't let a party make you compromise.

Hope you enjoy.

Answer 8

Just take your girlfriend and grind on her. Everybodys happy

Answer 9

Just talk to people. Or just fake it. Act like you are drinking so people wont say stuff about you.