What do you do if someone stalks you in church?

Question

This guy came to US from my country. I thought I was bein hospitable by showin him a good place to go besides Dennys to eat. He always complimented me to the point it made me uncomfortable. Things also got to where I had to be blunt n upfront and tell him, look I'm doing this as being nice to show you around- i dont want to date- im not looking for relationship. Then he started leaving me phone messages saying I wasnt being nice, how can i do this to him.. Then his messages sounded like he was fantasizing about me while..... This guy grosses me out. I changed my # and even if I see him at church, I act like I dont see him- even if he walks right past me. TODAY in church he sat right behind me.... Of all places he could of sat. It just makes me feel really uncomfortable and I dont want to end up goin off on him cuz he's not worth that energy. BUT what should I do? Keep ignoring him or should I say something to him like, look you creep me out. Stay Away!?

Thx.

Answer 1

If yer 13 years old, tell yer parents. If yer 63, take what ya can get.

Answer 2

I've heard this trick from self-defense classes and I think it would work in this situation: Pretend he can't see you and either pick your nose and pretend to eat the boogers, or smell your armpits and feign disgust. Anything gross or weird will make him go away...

Answer 3

for feal?lol, TELL your pastor! Or just confront the dude and tell him,"are your actions Godlike???" NO!!!!! And just tell him,I"m praying for you because you have some serious illegit ways!" That should be a redlight for him like,"woa, maybe I should back off, I'm supposed to be saved!!!!!!!!!"

Answer 4

First of all that first guy who answered is Stooopid!!  But he might want a green card but also he sounds a little too stalkerish.  If you are uncomfortable maybe you can get a pastor to talk to him for you to tell him to lay off and if it gets worse file a police report and restraining order, record all interactions you have with him because it can potential turn violent if he isnt taken the hint yet!! good luck.

Answer 5

Tell him you are going out with Jesus

Answer 6

Maybe you could talk with your pastor about it. It sounds as though the man needs help, and your pastor might be able to steer him in that direction, as well as suggest others in the congregation who might help show the man around town instead of you.

Good luck.

Answer 7

WWJD

Answer 8

Stop going to church for a while and if this situation starts to scare you call the police.

Answer 9

Be careful this guy may be a nut case.  Ignore him but watch that he doesn't follow you home.  If he knows where you live or work and continues to stalk you there go to the police, there is a stalking law to protect you.  If he sits right behind you in church try to see if you can find another place to sit and change your seat.

Answer 10

Tell him you have a bf.

Answer 11

Don't confront him just keep ignoring him like u have been doing. If he tries to talk to u then unleash ur wrath on him.

Answer 12

creepy ! stay FAR AWAY !!!!!!!!

Answer 13

don't take things for granted get a restraining order that should scare him away and keep him away 12 feet away at all times. You don't know what his mental state is so take all precausions to remain safe and call your local police department and file for a restraining order.

Answer 14

Yes, and also talk to your Church leader . He may have some ideas and can help you

Answer 15

You should go to the police because after a while this WILL get more serious  

Answer 16

If you can I would be really clear, enough people aren't in this case.  If not maybe its time to enlist the police to talk to him