What do you do if you feel you lost your way in life, and don't know which direction you should go?

Question

Am single, disabled, huge debts, likely to be out of work before Christmas. My life wasn't intended to be like this. How do I reinvent myself as a happy and successful person?

Answer 1

yes apply for a disability plan, it should help you with the costs....try looking for work online (make sure you do your research first before starting that process)....work from home....take yourself out of this debt first....have a realistic plan to take yourself out of debt say anywhere from 1-4 months (roughly)....

2) get help from someone with this process as it can be pretty tricky, a friend or family member....or even a bank specialist who can help you

3)do some yoga itll help ease the mind and get you back on track so ur not stressed

Make the most of what you have...work with your circumstance dont let it take over your life...you need to gain control over your life again...and you can do this with a positive attitude and motivation!

Start planning a success strategy..point A to B...you can do this, have faith in yourself...happiness is a choice.

"Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending"

Answer 2

I think the best bit of advice I can give you is to read the book, The Secret by Rhonda Burns.  It is a book that teaches the law of attraction.

For me, I read this book at the perfect time in my life. I was at an all time low... I was negative about where my life was, I felt trapped, and like there was nothing to look forward to in my future.  

The first step for me was eliminating the negativity out of my life.  This will not happen immediately, but you have to put forth a conscious effort to do so.  And once I got that out, I found my happiness I was born with that was shining so bright just waiting for me to bring it out into my world.  

I have a wonderful attitude now, I am so thankful and grateful for my world, the people in it, and all the great things I have.  

Technically, there is not a lot that has changed in my physical world, but when I changed my mind and thinking, it set me free.  The mind is very powerful, and it definitely has changed my life.  

Plus, you should look at this time of not working as a time to work on yourself... on the inside.  This may be your time to get to know who you are, and how you think about yourself and issues that relate to you.  

Also, I am single, and use to worry myself everyday about finding a boyfriend and having a successful relationship... when one day it hit me.  And I knew I had to surrender that part of my life to God.  I could not go another day or night racking my brain of why me... why can't I have that relationship, etc... I also know that God has a plan and will lead me in the right place to meet that person when the time is right.   And literally, the next morning after praying that prayer, I woke up and was not lonely anymore. No, not at all, seriously! It has been the greatest feeling!   I am not sure if being single is an issue for you... but if yes, you might try this. If not, you can use this surrender prayer to help you change anything in your life.  

And last of all, you mentioned you wanted to feel successful. Well, first of all, I think you need to re-define success for yourself at this current time. Perhaps there are things that are just not possible, no matter what you do.  That is ok.  Maybe success for you right now... is finding that happiness, or evening making more of an initiative to get to know or spend time with friends or family members.  Perhaps success for you is getting your home or closet completely cleaned out so you can feel more organized.  DON'T think of success as a big career filled with a wallet full of money. Success can be anything that you strive for in your own life.  

Good Luck my friend, you deserve happiness, and I know it is inside of you. Start digging, and bring it out and share it with the world.

Thanks for reading!

Answer 3

You get disability payments from your state, don't you?

Answer 4

I talk to God.

Answer 5

search your heart. what is it that you desire? then pursue what you desire. its that simple.  

Answer 6

It souns like your life revolves around money.  You should focus more on yourself, soul, and well being.  The money will be gone when you die.  Will your consciousness still exist?  Will your soul still exist?  You should visit a buddhist temple, jewish temple, christian church, etc.  If for no other reason than those places are amongst the most peaceful places one can find.  They will help ease your stress just by sitting there for several minutes.