What do you do if your family's happiness is on the point of destruction because of a possible divorce?

Question

*Sigh* life is indeed hard for people.

Answer 1

frist ill slap som1 if it ever happens then Pray to Allah and ask him to help this family to go back to gether

ill aslo pray that the person i slapt wont kill me.

Answer 2

I would let it play out. Just because my family isn;t happy with a divorce doesn't mean I should suffer and stay married and miserable the rest of my life.

Answer 3

call for asap meeting with just you and mom and dad

tell em you love em and would like to see them together for the rest of their lives...

than let them talk/ you just listen

goodluck

Answer 4

You return to Allah and make dua and ask for guidance. One Dua is stronger than all the armies of the nations massed together in one.

If there is no hardship here then there is no need for a reward there.

Answer 5

Divorce is indeed the most detestable thing allowed by God. Try to discuss it with your parents (if you are talking about yourself).

If you excuse me, can I say something to the first answerer (eviwahhabi):

Please, don't post questions in your answers for you are ought to be reported for such an act and it is not nice inviting others to answer your questions through your answers!

Answer 6

Pray and place your Trust in Allah.

Answer 7

divorce is never nice.  However sometimes it is for the best.  When two people are miserable and really cannot stand one another, they will make their children miserable and resentful.  It's never a happy occasion, however it can be a way to avoid further misery and unhappiness.  

Answer 8

If you are not happy in your marriage then staying together will not make anyone happy either. Happiness will be found again even if the divorce takes place because the people involved will be able to be happy again. My parents got divorced and for a while we went happy, but looking back and realizing how miserable home life was when they were together makes the divorce so much better. Them not being together in the same room and creating tension makes things better. If there is children involved you make their lives harder if you try to stay together when you are unhappy. When you are angry at your other half you will end up taking it out on your children. When you spend time with your family it should be happy and joyous. If it isn't then it is time to change the life you are leading.